(Closed) FSIL Wearing Two Dresses to Wedding?

posted 3 years ago in Emotional
  • poll: Is it ok for FSIL to wear two dresses to my wedding?
    Yes : (66 votes)
    49 %
    No : (69 votes)
    51 %
  • Post # 2
    Member
    595 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: May 2017

    Just let it go. You’ll enjoy your wedding much more if you do. Unless one of the dresses is a wedding dress, then who cares??

    Post # 3
    Member
    3611 posts
    Sugar bee

    Unless the dress is extremely uncomfortable to move/dance in (and in which case, why did she pick that one?), she’s being an attention-seeking weirdo. I would just let it go, though. If people even notice her outfit change, she’s the one who will come off as, like I said, an attention-seeking weirdo. It’s no reflection on you.

    Post # 4
    Member
    1495 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: October 2015

    Treala :  I would say that was totally fine if she was a regular guest but seeing as she is the bridesmaid I would want her to remain in the wedding colors. She has the honor of standing up with you on your special day, on top of it all she was able to choose her dress so she should’ve picked one she was comfortable staying in all day.

    Post # 5
    Member
    671 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: September 2016

    It always amazes me when bridesmaids and guests worry so much about their dresses at a wedding. No one will notice what she wears the first or second time, everyone will be noticing the bride. If someone does notice they will find her vain and weird. Don’t worry about it. She wants to waste her energy and money, go right ahead. Just let her know you expect her to wear the first dress until the end of formal photos 

    Post # 6
    Member
    907 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: October 2016

    What a weirdo. 

    Post # 7
    Member
    2853 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: April 2016

    Why do people do this? Just wear the damn bridesmaid dress and be a good bridesmaid….

    Post # 8
    Member
    2134 posts
    Buzzing bee

    Seems weird… Just let it go. Bigger fish to fry.

    Post # 9
    Member
    6832 posts
    Busy Beekeeper

    Is it strange? Yes. Is she the one who will get side-eyed over it? Yes. Should you lose any sleep over it? No. She could change dresses five times and you will still be the bride. 

    Post # 10
    Member
    1860 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    Is the second dress still a wedding color?

    Post # 11
    Member
    1287 posts
    Bumble bee

    You cant really do anything to stop her from doing so, but she’s being a brat for wanting to do so. If I were you, I’d just side eye her and move on with my life.

    Post # 12
    Member
    1861 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: July 2015

    I think she is super weird, but you dont really have a right to control your reception guests changing clothes or not.    No one is going to care or notice her, as long as she isnt changing into a bridal gown or something.  Just ignore her and let her be.  It’s her money she is wasting.

    Post # 14
    Member
    2331 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: January 2015

    Super attention seeking, but it will just make her look weird. Just ignore it and enjoy your day

    Post # 15
    Member
    461 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: August 2017

    Treala :  gah! Let this one go. All eyes will be on the bride. She’s just milking it. 

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