(Closed) FSILs and large wedding parties…what did you do?

posted 8 years ago in Family
  • poll: Did you ask your FSILs as BMs, and how big was your bridal party?

    I don't have FSILs/SILs

    I have them but didn't ask them

    I asked them, and my bridal party was 4 or less

    I asked them, and my bridal party was 5 or more

  • Post # 32
    1436 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: July 2014

    My SO has a twin brother who just got married July of last year and I was a bridesmaid in his wedding. Fastforward to July 26, 2014 his SIL will not be walking in our wedding because I will not be asking her for such assistance. Btw: I have 3 Maid/Matron of Honor and 7 Bridesmaid or Best Man.


    Post # 36
    734 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: July 2013

    I had my SIL (married my bro 2 years prior),  but not my Future Sister-In-Law, even though his parents assumed I would. I don’t know her that well, and I wanted my bridal party to be people I was close with. I had 6 girls in my party, and I thought that was a perfect number for us.

    Post # 38
    127 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: September 2013

    I asked my Future Sister-In-Law (FH’s sister) and she lives in England (I’m in Michigan) with her husband and two children.  She was very happy and has been very nice with no problems whatsoever.  I never expected her to do anything but get a dress and a plane ticket.  She got her dress before everyone else!  Her husband is my FH’s Brother-In-Law and also one of his Groomsmen.  Her two sons are both RBs so the entire family is in the wedding and its fabulous.  I have 6 bridesmaids in all and we are expecting approx. 150 people as well.  I am planning the final meeting with the hotel for when she is in town so she can be a part of a little planning and she is very glad to be included.  I highly recommend it.


    Post # 39
    290 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: August 2014

    @PromiseRooster:  haha all good I get the confusion haha no my Future Sister-In-Law is lobelt , but I was saying for example my FSILs Future Sister-In-Law hahahaha is not nice so I know she wouldn’t have her as a bridesmaid , it all depends how you get along with your Future Sister-In-Law

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