(Closed) FSIL's that think they are bridesmaids….

posted 5 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

Back one or two years ago I told two of my friends that of course they would be bridesmaids in my future wedding. Well I got engaged and me and my Fiance decided we wanted a smaller wedding party so I am NOT asking them. I haven’t said anything to them and they haven’t said anything to me. If they ask me about it (which is rude) I would just tell them that we were trying to keep the numbers down for budgeting reasons so we couldn’t have everyone we wanted in the wedding.

Good luck!

Post # 5
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376 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

@ParisM:  Exactly! And they might talk some crap behind your back (as I’m sure my friends have done) but you’re doing the best you can do and any logical and forgiving person will realize that weddings are hard to plan and most people try their hardest to not step on anyones feet! It can be hard though.

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