(Closed) FSIL’s wedding pics came in: Not in any of them!

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Bumble bee

Thats pure jealousy right there. You’re better than her so move on and ignore her petty attitude. 

Post # 4
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2010

You’re going to have to keep taking the high road here. Don’t say anything. Just be glad you see her for who she really is, and that you’re nothing like her. If there’s ever a reason for her to step down as a Bridesmaid or Best Man, quickly jump at that chance and get her out of there! She sounds incredibly toxic. I’m sorry you have to deal with her ๐Ÿ™

Post # 5
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

Yikes, yes I would feel shafted. I suggest not bringing it up, and just letting it go. She most likely did it on purpose to make you angry, so she can pick a fight.

Post # 7
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

Were these pro pics? Or off someone’s camera? I ask because I made a point to take a photo with my grandma and my DH’s grandma at our wedding, but we got our pro pics back and it isn’t there. So maybe this is what happened? There was a photo taken of you two but it wasn’t a good photo so it wasn’t displayed?

Post # 9
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2012

I wouldn’t say a word.  You can’t choose your relatives (even by marriage lol). 

Post # 11
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

My SIL was a bm. When I got my pro pictures back, she’s not in a SINGLE pro picture! I actually was pretty pissed at her. I figured she was avoiding the camera or whatnot. The only pictures she’s in are of my bridal party (she skipped out on getting ready with us). Out of the hundreds of guests dancing, she’s just not there.

Did you pose for her photographer? Maybe there just aren’t any of you?

 

Post # 12
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

@Legallyblondiebride: Have you spoken to your Fiance about it? You are better than me because I would seriously find a way to put her out the bridal party…like ‘wait’ for her to do something and ask her to leave the party.

Post # 13
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

@Legallyblondiebride: PS-I’m kinda sneaky so she really doesn’t have to be in all your wedding photos. Just have a private meeting with the photog and take one or two of the bridal party formally and at the reception have the rest of you and your other BMs maybe? Or have the photog focus mostly on guests or just you and your FI?

There has to be a way to keep her out of a lot of your photos?

Post # 14
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

I wouldn’t bring it up, but I would definetely feel slighted. But don’t think about it, and definetely don’t do the same to her at your wedding to feel better about it. One day down the road you guys might get along and you’ll want those pictures. Plus is doesn’t make you the bigger person by making her feel the way you do now.

Post # 15
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: December 1999

I am going to go against the grain here. My family doesn’t usually include significant others in formal pictures until you are married. I know it is silly and she was probably just being catty, but maybe that was her line of thinking.

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