(Closed) FSMIL ruined fitting :/

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

Can you just bring the seamstress some cookies, a big apology, and ask her (non-pressurey) wtf happened?

Post # 4
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: January 1992

I think you’re jumping to conclusions. I would call the seamstress and get a proper reason. 

Post # 6
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

@aliavenue:  I second this motion! But I would bring cupcakes:)

Post # 7
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

@mrs_g.mck:  At this point when you go get your dress you and your Fiance need to talk to Dot. You need to ask her what happened that changed her attitude. You need to ask her point blank if your FSMIL had anything to do with it. She needs to be told/warned that your FSMIL has been badmouthing you and if that is the reason she decided against your business you think it is totally unfair.

If she apologizes, great. If not, than tactifully thank her but tell her how disappointed you are with her. I’m snarky enough to write bad reveiws for her online in forums as a warning to others.

At this point, your Fiance needs to also deal with your FSMIL. If she did have something to do with this, I would take away her wedding invite and cut her out of your life

Post # 8
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

Do you have a contract woth this women who is dong your dress? Or was it more of a favor/ you know her so she is doing it kinda thing?

I would flat out ask her what made her change her mind? At this point what can it hurt if she is already refusing to do the work?

Post # 9
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

@aliavenue:  agreed!! Either way I’m sorry this happened to you!!

Post # 11
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

hmm this is really suspect. Is Dot friends with FSMIL? Is it possible she was rude to her or complain about her services and  offended her? I would try to find out what she did, and apologize for it(even thought it should be FSMIL) and hope she does the dress. Unless they are friends then I would just find someone else to do it.

Post # 14
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

@mrs_g.mck:  Maybe this is like when someone cheats on you and your in denial because you have no “real” proof, butttttt maybe this isn’t her fault.

Post # 15
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

I agree with the pp that you need to ask for an explanation from the seamstress. I would tell her that if she cannot share the truth about what happened to change her mind, I would consider her behavior very unprofessional and if asked, would have to share that opinion.

After all, you did nothing to cause this reaction on her part.

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