Post # 1
Mr. A and I are both heartbroken but I had to make a choice.
His family will never respect me or my daughter and her disability.
My post from last night detailed all they have put me through.
I am too broken now to continue with this charade.
We have not ended our relationship but instead I, with the help of a counselor, need to decide if I can stay or not.
Mr. A has been nothing but good to me and my little Annabelle but his family continues to break us down. Little A needs stability, love, and support and she will not get that from his family.
Post # 3
So sorry to hear this… sending you love and positivity…
Post # 4
I read your earlier post and I am heartbroken for you. I too have a young daughter from a previous relationship and the bottom line is you have to look out for her first. When I read that she cried herself to sleep it made my heart drop. Why are people so cruel?? I wish all 3 of you the best of luck and I hope that everything works out for you. (((Hugs)))
Post # 5
@SoontobeMrsA: (((((Hugs)))) to you. I am so sorry.
Good for you for talking with a counselor. Are you going to do couple’s counseling too?
All I can say is that I am here for you. You are a wonderful person and an even better mother. You deserve all the best in the world.
Post # 6
@SoontobeMrsA: sooo sorry hunny. This has all been so heartbreaking to read about. I truly hope that he is able to get his family to have a change of heart.
Post # 7
I am so sorry!! You said that you are both heartbroken so Im assuming that he isnt happy that the engagement is off. If you two want to be together he needs to be the one to keep his family in line, because your right A does need stability just like every child. I am so sorry you are feeling down and I hope that everything works out for you!! My thoughts and prayers are with you and your little family 🙂
Post # 10
I’m so sorry that you have to go through this. Sending you good thoughts!
Post # 11
I’m so sorry too. I read your post from last night and I agree with organizedbride 100%.
My husband has shunned his family because of their treatment of me. If you and MR. A were already married, you wouldn’t be divorcing him because of his family, would you? Are you sure you want to sacrifice your happiness because of them? If he were to choose them or you, it would be his choice.
It would say a lot about how much he loves you if he chose you.
I can’t believe how awful and hateful those people are after reading your post from last night. Big hugs.
Post # 12
I read your post yesterday but I didn’t comment. I’m so sorry that it’s come to this. We all know how much you and Mr. A love and care for each other. It’s a shame that his shitty family had to get in the way of that.
I take it nothing came of the ultimatum he gave them (maybe you posted a follow up but I didn’t see it)? I know you guys just bought a house but is moving an option? I imagine that would be hard with his son but maybe even just putting an hour between you and these disgusting excuses for human beings could help.
*sigh* I’m heartbroken for you. 🙁
Post # 13
I am so sorry:( Keeping you in my thoughts!!
Post # 14
I’m sorry hun, I know this decision must have been very difficult for you. I wish you the best and will keep you in my thoughts. Hugs to Annabelle.
Post # 15
🙁 *hugs* Why can’t you guys just move far away from them? I hate them. You are much better than me because I would have cussed them all out by now.
Post # 16
I am so sorry you have to go through this! Stay strong and my thoughts are with you and your little girl. <hugs>