(Closed) F/U: I called off the engagement

posted 10 years ago in Emotional
Post # 46
315 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

@SoontobeMrsA: You are making the right choice, your child comes first.

Post # 47
972 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

@crayfish: Agreed! As this is what’s happening to me right now. (Although hubby is fed up now too and won’t see them either, I didn’t push him into that decision and our lives are much more peaceful now).

Post # 49
2024 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

Big hugs for you and Little A.  🙂

Post # 50
608 posts
Busy bee

Good for you and him. Keep that one. He sounds like a great one! We love you!

Post # 51
2126 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: January 1992

I’m sorry, bu I don’t understand your decision. You said Mr. A is not going to let you leave, so why even hurt him? You said his family thinks you are no good, so why prove them right? You said little A loves him and trusts him, so why take him away from her? Basically, what good is coming out of calling off the engagement?

Post # 52
2965 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

All I can offer is (((HUGS)))

Post # 53
622 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

So sorry to you and Annabelle for having to deal with this! Fiance parents were horrible to me from the beginning. I still feel that they will try to do something to make my wedding next week horrible; however Fiance chose me and I respected his decision. You, Mr A and Lil A are your family now… they are what matters!

I would say that giving up YOUR and MR A’s happiness…. because a few people are HORRIBLE people… Your letting them have an upper hand. Girl you are so much better than that, youve had a very rough time lately and your an amazing mother and woman. Stay strong; keep you and Lil A away from those horrible people and be happy with your man! Show them that no matter what they say about you… you are the amazing strong woman and mother than we have all seen here on WB! They dont even deserve to have you in their family!!! Hope things work out for you hun!

Prayers for you three!!!!

Post # 54
2166 posts
Buzzing bee


Mr. A just put it in very clear cut terms:

I will not lose soontobemrsa. She is what I want and what makes me happy. She is a good wife and a good mother. If I have to choose, I choose her.


Im confused, so you’re staying together then?

Post # 55
2396 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

Oh my. Sending positive thoughts your way!

Post # 56
2303 posts
Buzzing bee

(((hugs))) You two will be okay. Stay strong with each other and your daughter. It has been impossibly hard, but he sounds like a good man, especially for you. Good luck!

Post # 57
1338 posts
Bumble bee

Oh no! Sending you love! So much love!

Post # 58
2288 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: December 2010

Big hugs and lots of love to you and Little A. I am sending you many good vibes. Be the strong woman we all know you are!

Post # 59
99 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

@SoontobeMrsA: Mr. A is correct. Good luck!!!!! He knows what he has is worth it!!!!

And take no shit from them. None.

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