(Closed) F/U- Mr.A’s attempt to help an addict

posted 7 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2010

Wow! How sad!

Post # 5
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

Frown

That’s really sad. But since you mentioned that you dad also suffered from addiction, then you know that it is a terrible terrible disease.

I commend you and your Fiance for trying to help her and really hope that she gets clean.

Hopefully you can see that she is not in a healthy mental state and that she probably doesn’t even realize how unappropriate her behaviour is.

Post # 6
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Bee Keeper

Wow…this girl is clearly beyond help from the two of you. You and your Fiance have put up with this long enough. I say good for him for texting that back to her. Crazy!

Post # 7
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

Seriously? You know what they call girls that provide services for money…

What a dumb beeyatch.

Post # 8
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

Good for Mr.A.  And yeah, clearly she is a desperate and deranged person.  Be happy you’re not her, and I would leave it alone.  I hope she gets the help she needs, but not from the two of you…your Fiance tried.  And clearly, your suspicions about her were true.

Post # 9
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: January 2011

Desperate times I guess.  Time to cut her off completely and for good.

Post # 10
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Bumble Beekeeper

Yeah. I think it’s time to cut ties. You can only help someone who is willing to help themself.

Post # 11
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

@SoontobeMrsA: wow… just… wow.  sounds like it was an automatic response in the hopes of landing some cash.  kinda like in the movies where you see the woman saying/doing the same thing for whatever reason (usually to get out of trouble or save someone…).

it sounds like the lady needs more serious help than what either of you could offer.  it was great to try to help, but there has to be a line. 

sorry you two had to deal with this!

Post # 12
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

WAOW. effed up. so glad he’s cutting her out of your lives.

Post # 13
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2011

Yikes, I guess that’s what desperation looks like. How sad…

Post # 15
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

@SoontobeMrsA: You and your Fiance were so sweet to try to help her, but good for Mr. A to respond the way he did. I feel so sad for her, that she would feel it approprate to say those things. I wish you luck in keeping her out of your lives!

Post # 16
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: December 2010

I have a guy friend who has told me several times he’s going to kill himself. Each time was when he was on some form of alcohol/drug. I know how you feel because I’ve been there so many times, but like a PP said, you can’t help someone who won’t help themselves. 

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