(Closed) fuming….

posted 7 years ago in Parties
  • poll: Am I being a brat
    Yes! : (4 votes)
    14 %
    No, its your night! : (24 votes)
    86 %
  • Post # 3
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    Honey bee
    • Wedding: May 2011

    every bachelorette i’ve been to has been pay your own way. why does she want to cut the list?

    Post # 4
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    Helper bee

    why do you need to cut people exactly? is the bachelorette away from home? too expensive for that many to travel?

    Post # 5
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: July 2010

    Not at all, what does she care how many people you invite it’s your night! Does she feel that she is going to have to pay for it all or the place won’t have the space? I’m sorry you’re going through this, what a pain.

    Post # 6
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    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: August 2010

    Did she tell you why she wants you to cut people?

    Post # 7
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    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: May 2011

    Shouldn’t she want more people to spread the costs around?

    Post # 9
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: September 2008

    Ok – sorry – didn’t see the response from the OP when I posted this.

       

    Post # 10
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: July 2011

    Who cuts bachelorette parties!?

    Post # 11
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: August 2011

    LOL cut her and be like, “Fixed the list!”

    Post # 12
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: July 2011

    Can you explain this a little further?  What are the plans for the bach party?  Why is there a need to cut the list?

    Post # 13
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: July 2011

    Try talking to her about it and figuring out how to have all your people without the added expense. What did she say when you offered to pay?

    Post # 15
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    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: May 2011

    Can I just say I think my #1 pet peeve is when people bug the bride about Bachelorette parties/Bridal Showers. You are not supposed to be involved in the planning at all. She should have the girls send her $ upfront or change the plans but either way she should not be complaining to you about it.

    Post # 16
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: February 2011

    @cc226: I think that if you put it to her that way, it might go over better: “It’s more important to me to have all my friends at my bach party and if we have to choose a different location for it, then I’m willing to do it.” 

    If it IS important for you to do it at the tapas bar, then offer to pay for it. 

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