(Closed) Fun question!!!!

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Busy bee

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mrsstewietobe:  awww! Meant to be then! 

After like four months of us being together, he brought me over to his parents for dinner to meet them. It went REALLY well, we all just clicked right away. He and I were driving on the way home from his parent’s house and I looked over and he was looking at me smiling and at that exact moment, I thought, “this is the man I’m going to marry”. A year later, we were having this exact conversation about when we both knew and we both were thinking the same thing but never said it. We will be married in November 🙂

Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2015

I was about three months in. We were at Applebee’s and it just hit me. Couldn’t stop smiling for days after. We haven’t even gotten to the “I love yous” yet!

Post # 4
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Newbee

It was very gradual for me. I can’t think of an exact moment. I’m divorced so I was nervous about marriage. After a few months of dating passed by I realized I had nothing to be worried about. The funny thing is if I ask Fiance when he knew, he says it’s the moment he saw me again and I smiled at him. It was the first time I had seen him in 8 years and I’ve known him since 3rd grade. 

He asked about my ring size on one of our first few dates. Lol!

Post # 5
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: July 2016 - The Burgundy Basin

It was one of the first times that we hung out. It was late at night (he had just gotten out of work at his shitty retail job).. we were both tired and we went for a walk by the lake. We went out and sat at the end of a boat dock and just talked. The light was shining on him and the water and the stars we shimmering behind him and he was telling me about his life and how many siblings he had and I thought to myself “I could listen to him talk forever”. It was amazing to realize in such a short amount of time that I would never get sick of his voice or how excited he gets when he talks about cars and his passions. Here we are 3 1/2 years later and due to be married in July. :]

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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

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mrsstewietobe:  I would say I knew a couple of years into the relationship. We started dating when I was 17 and he was 18 so we were very young and I was ready to break it off a month in. Lol Good thing I didn’t because now we have been together for 10 years next week. We got engaged November 2011, and got married June 2014, and are ready to finally start a family!

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Blushing bee

We were laying on the couch in our pjs watching movies, and he got up and walked out of the room to get me something (I didn’t even ask, he just noticed and did it) and I thought to myself “husband.” I think we’d been together a few months at that point (so long ago i barely remember).

Post # 8
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2017 - Rossino Castle

I kinda knew after about a week of us being officially together,so around a month after first meeting him.He said he knew around the same time.Funny thing is,I was married before,and I was convinced that marriage wasn’t important to me anymore before I met him.

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Worker bee

I knew after about 3 weeks of dating. I remember the moment perfectly. He had taken the day off from work, we had lunch and stopped for a milkshake. He was dropping me back off to my car and we couldn’t stop talking. We sat in his car for over an hour talking, sharing a milkshake and I knew then that he was the man I was going to marry.

Post # 10
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2025

It was gradual for me, I don’t think there was an exact moment. But I knew when I could picture myself having a family with him, he was probably the one. And when I realized that the best part of my day, every single day, is coming home to him, I knew I’d never want to come home to anyone else!

Post # 11
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Newbee
  • Wedding: September 2015

When I met Fiance I was going through a drawn out divorce. I wasn’t even sure if I wanted to date yet. But I agreed to at least meet him, and we just clicked. I think my heart fell right away but my brain needed to move slow. It was a process of me noticing him taking the time to notice things about me. Like body language if I stand a certain way I’m mad and this way means I’m confused. I don’t know the exact moment but I do know that each day he does something that makes me fall in love with him a little more. 

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Bee Keeper

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CamoBride15:  I can relate to you ‘not sure I want to date’ feeling.  

 

I’d gone on a couple of great dates with my man. He was 100% perfect in his planning, manner…everything and we had a great time.  I was doing a bit of therapy to sort out a little issue I wanted to deal with and although my now Fiance was gorgeous on our dates I just thought there wasn’t crazy chemistry and I was in an odd place so I called him and thanked him for two great dates but I didn’t think we were for each other. His response was just astounding. No drama. Just very open hearted whilst still keeping his own integrity. I can remember putting the phone down after that call thinking ‘oh….I think I might have judged that wrong’ and then he was in my mind all the time so I messaged him and thank heavens he was thinking about me and although wary, he agreed to another date.  We met again to suss things out I guess and we just clicked and talked and I can remember thinking “if I say yes to another date I know ill never have another first date again’. And I really wanted him to ask me out again. He did and that was it really. Although it takes time to really know someone, from then on in we both just knew it was us two. We get married next June. 

Post # 13
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Blushing bee

I remember laying in bed after our first date (on my own, btw!) , which was the first time in 5 hours i wasn’t on the go and could just think. The first thought I has was just ‘Wow. I think my life just changed!’. 

That was 8 months ago, and we definitely know we are headed for marriage. 

Post # 14
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2017 - Vineyard on Long Island

I met my fiance my freshman year of college. He was dating one of my sorority sisters from the year ahead of me (he’s also a grade older than me).  We met as they were leaving a party and I was arriving.  I later found him passed out in the hallway of my freshman dorm – turns out he had lived in that dorm the year before and had auto-piloted there in his drunken wandering.  I knew right then, as he was sleeping curled up against the wall, that he would be mine.

#notevenjoking

After the next two years of “totally sneakily by total coincidence” running into each other at partices and “totally by chance” scheduling several events between his fraternity and my sorority while we were both social chair, we started dating my senior year (the year after he graduated – he took a teaching job local to our college). I knew he was the one before we started dating because we’d basically been stuck on each other for the first 3 years I was in college.  The longest I’d been interested in a guy before that point was on the order of a few months, so that was when my life changed 🙂

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Worker bee

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mrsstewietobe:  Lovely question! I knew I loved my SO after helping him through a rough time in his life. This was only a few months into the relationship. I honestly cannot remember when I first realized he was the one, but the first that comes to mind was after our first anniversary. We walked and talked until we were tired, and I wan’t ready for the day to be over. Was this question supposed to make me cry? It worked haha

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