Post # 16
mrsstewietobe: I can honestly say it was the moment I saw him the 1st time we met. We were invited by a mutual friend to a show, and we kept catching ourselves looking at each other. I was at the show alone, but actually in a short term relationship with someone at the moment that I didn’t see going anywhere, and I just had the strongest urge and feeling that I needed to end that relationship ASAP and talk to this man. He’s my 1st long term relationship, and we’ve been tpgether 8 1/2 years, (long term waiter here too!) and we’re getting married in 3 weeks!!! Something definately played a part in us meeting that night!
Post # 17
mrsstewietobe: I knew while she was dating…someone else!!! It’s a really long story but to cut to the chase, it took me a month of hanging out to realise that if I couldn’t marry her (Which I knew I couldn’t she was with someone else), that I didn’t think I would ever get married and I actually seriously started accepting a life alone.
We actually had a conversation while she was dating this other person where I told her I didn’t think I’d ever get married (I didn’t tell her why, I’m not a home wrecker) and she told me she knew 100% guaranteed that I would. Turns out she was talking about herself and a couple weeks later she ended her relationship and we started dating soon after.
We’ve been together 2 years now and we’ve barely fought, we’re happy, we laugh, we love each other more and more every day.
Post # 18
I’m pretty sure I knew as soon as I met him, but there is one moment that really set it in stone. We’re long distance and on my first visit to him I was sitting on the couch watching tv with his mom and grandma. He came downstairs, saw us, stopped and said “you belong here.” It was that moment that I realized I was already becoming part of his family.
Post # 19
He was the first guy I dated after a horrible divorce! He was supposed to be my re-entry to society lol but we developed an awesome friendship and we talked and laughed a lot! We started off as friends and I remember his talking to me for hours! I also remember worrying about baggage that I inevitably had, dealing w/ the fall out after divorce. Worrying about blending our kiddos and when? Here we are living long distance due to our active duty statuses and still making it work four years later!
Post # 20
It was a couple months into our relationship when I realized. I had gone through a terrible breakup with my ex-fi less than 3 months before our wedding, so i questioned whether or not I really ever wanted to get married. A couple months in, I looked at him and started thinking of engagements, weddings, children, etc and knew that I never wanted to live a day without him in my life.