(Closed) Funny or Hurtful Bride's Parents Song?

posted 6 years ago in Music
Post # 3
339 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: February 2014

@lynnwin:  Maybe it wasn’t the best idea for her to play that song for you, but these days having a big butt is usually not a bad thing. She probably meant no harm. 


ETA: Tell her definitely not about the song, though!

Post # 4
10287 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2011

I guess it depends on the crowd but I would be mortified to have to walk into a room full of my family and friends to that song. I don’t find it funny at all. 

Post # 5
776 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

I honestly think it was extremely insensitive of her.  🙁  Unless it were something you yourself joke about frequently.  Otherwise, she shouldn’t  have said it, even if she were joking.  (which I’m sure she was) But most women,( no matter what size they are) don’t like being told they have a big butt.  :/

I’m so sorry she hurt your feelings!  I”m sure you have a great butt!! 🙂

Post # 6
9954 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2012

@lynnwin:  I read your previous topic here on WBee.

There is most clearly a HUGE disconnnect between you and your Daughter on this Wedding.

As a Mom myself, I can see why you are hurt… (( HUGS ))

Truthfully, I find her attitude towards you as quite RUDE… IMO you are not being too sensitive… she is being TOO INSENSITIVE and disrespectful.

At this point in time, I’d have a talk with her and tell her how you feel.  If she can’t be more respectful to you her Parents, I’d let her know that you’ll be at the Ceremony (for the sake of the Grandkiddies… happy that their Parents are marrying), but are pulling out of the Wedding Reception (including the money you’ve committed for that event).

You don’t need to be “the butt” (sorry for the pun) of some sick practical joke for her “satisfaction”

She is being a self-righteous @ss.  Period.

I am sure you raised her better than that (shows thru in your writings here on WBee).  Don’t let her get the upper hand by making a fool of you in public.

Again I am sorry this is happening to you.


Post # 8
967 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

That’s mean….I would not choose a song like that unless it was joke in my family (I would do right said fred “i’m too sexy” for my parents….)

Post # 9
7606 posts
Bumble Beekeeper

I’d tell her no way.  That’s rude and after reading what you said about the mass text and the rehearsal dinner, it sounds like she’s used to being very insensitive.  I’m sure she thinks it would be funny, but I can see why you’d feel uncomfortable and have hurt feelings.  Definitely tell her that song won’t be acceptable!

Post # 10
339 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: February 2014

@lynnwin:  Ahh, She’s not playing nice, then. Let the hurtful song roll of your back… Have you talked to her about how she treats you? 

Post # 12
540 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

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