(Closed) Funny or innapropriate wording for an RSVP?

posted 8 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
97 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

I think it’s funny! And if you and your Fiance do too, go for it! πŸ™‚

Post # 4
2249 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: March 2018

i don’t know that i’d give people the option of accepts with regret or declines with pleasure unless you are sure you wont be sad if people check them. maybe give them a space to draw something or write a note to you could lighten the mood of the rsvp. πŸ™‚

Post # 5
7174 posts
Busy Beekeeper

I’m all for being goofy, but I think it’s a little inappropriate for RSVP cards, personally.  I mean, do you really want someone to mark “accepts with regret”?

What about giving them a space to write you marriage advice or something creative….

Post # 6
277 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

I think it’s funny, but honestly with some of the questions I’ve gotten about our RSVP cards, I wonder that someone would get confused. You REALLY have to assume the worst when it comes to the RSVP cards. Haha.

Post # 8
860 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

I think it’s funny, bu I’m not a “formal” person and I think most ettiqutte rules are bs.

But, if you come from families that are formal and like having formal events, you are definitely gonna piss some people off with these RSVP cards.  I guess it’s a matter of whether you care or not πŸ™‚

Post # 9
687 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

I think it’s funny and unique too. If it fit your style and your Fiance agrees — do what you want, it your wedding! πŸ™‚

Post # 10
459 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

Hi, so I saw the cutest RSVP the other day…

___ Will be there with bells on

___ Will be there without bells

___ Will be there, undecided on bells

___ Will do not be there, heard people will be wearing bells


I though this was such a cute way to break up the formality of an RSVP πŸ™‚

Best of Luck

Post # 12
222 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

I think it’s great, except that I think people could get easily confused!

Post # 13
96 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

I have seen so many posts about the guests being confused about the RSVP choices that it really depends on what your guests are like. Will they get that its supposed to be funny?

Post # 14
13099 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2010

I think you’d run in to too many people confused / questioning.  People already have too many RSVP issues as is (there are multiple on these boards every day it seems).

One of my friends had the standard ___ will attend, ___ must decline (or whatever) and then had a MadLibs style “Advice for Marriage” at the bottem.  They got a mixture of serious and very funny answers to the MadLib Advice.

I’ll try and find something similar to give you an idea of what they did!

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