- 5 years ago
- Wedding: May 2013
I’m really hurt and furious at FH right now, and we’re supposed to go on a date ina few hours.
FH invited his ex-fiance – who has done everything possible to make all his friends hate me with years of vicious rumors, fake tales, and telling them to stay away from me if they want to be friends with her – over to his house last night.
Yup – over to his one-bedroom apartment.
The alleged reasoning? We had an out-of-state friend who was staying at his apartment, and she wanted to see “her” cats.
Well… I could probably be iffly okay with this, if not for the facts:
(A) FH told me she couldn’t make it to hang out with our friend, so she wasn’t going. He never mentioned she was there for 4 hours.
(B) She wasn’t there to see the cats. He’s been living in the area with cats they had during their relationship for 3 years. Never ONCE has she stopped to see them. Never. Not even when we needed a temp home for them. Actually, when the cats needed the home she made an excuse as to why she couldn’t take them – then bought a new kitten shortly afterward.
(C) In the pictures of the ex-fiance, my FH and friend hanging out on Facebook – the friend NEVER appears. My FH does though. He’s laying down, on his bed, with the ex-fiance pressed up against him (side by side).
I’m really hurt he would do this when he knows how much I dislike her after how hellish she made the start of FH & I’s friendship and relationship. I hate how much she insulted me to other people, and has yet to apologize for any of it.
I hate that she hugs him and is lovey dovey with him, while spreading rumors about me (allegedly its stopped, I’m not so trusting of that). I hate that she won’t talk to him about me about “how his day has been” but draggs him to the other end of the room or a private room.
Am I wrong to feel something is off here?
I’m hurt, upset and don’t want to lay down the lay of “You can’t see her” but when he invites her over to his apartment past Midnight to “see the cats” – I don’t feel like I can trust him.