Post # 47
@sjreed14: I know this post is 2 weeks old, but as a sister to a brother (and i only have a brother) it meant a lot to me when my Future Sister-In-Law asked me to be a bridesmaids. I’m really excited to be involved in their wedding and I probably would have been hurt if I wasn’t involved in the wedding.
My Future Sister-In-Law didn’t have to ask me, but it really nice of her to include me. We are going to be family and it’s a good way to get closer.
Post # 48
i would ask her. See my above post. It meant a lot to me when my Future Sister-In-Law asked me (my brothers fiancé).
Post # 48
My Fiance and I talked this over a lot and decided that we should not include her in the bridal party. There are some days I regret this decision, but some days I don’t. She has not once asked me how wedding plans are going in the 9 months since we have been engaged. She lives another state away and I don’t think having her in the wedding would make us closer. She is just upset because it doesn’t get to be about her. Which is was her and my Future Mother-In-Law want. I have said from the beginning that if she had expressed TO ME, not her mom, my Fiance or my other Future Sister-In-Law, that it would mean a lot for her to be a part of the wedding, then would have asked her. I say to go with your gut and do what YOU and your Fiance want to do. My Fiance said I didn’t need to ask her and I didn’t expect him to ask my brother.