- 6 years ago
- Wedding: September 2012
I apologize if this gets to long or if this topic is covered some where else. I am new to this board and getting remarried to a wonderful Man September 1,2012. With this being asecond wedding for both oduse we have decided to have our children stand up for us I have one daughter 20 and 2 boys 17,16. Fi has 2 Daughters 20 (lives with us) and 22, 1 son 26.
Up until a few weeks ago everything was fine because I would keep my mouth shut and mind my own business. If and I as well as 4 of the kids. Over into a new house. The weekend we moved in we also had a wedding to attend. The move went well however sd 22 and SS 26 were a no show to help us. Normally I would have no expectations however if has been driving his some to work every day for 2 years because he lost his license for DUI. SD only comes around when she needs somethinpermitted behavior has always been accepted. I finally lost my mind after having to go to a wake. FI and I had plans later after the wake only for SS to drop another “I need a ride” bomb on his father. So of course Fiance felt bad and gave him a ride. This happens over and over and I am always the one waiting. FI and I have had this discussion many times. Needless to say I was not happy. My future SS told me I needed to get over myself and not be a bitch because my afternoon of shopping got messed up. He proceeded to say he has watched his Dad put me and my kids in a new house and me in a new car….I told him I had those things before I met his dad and did not need his dad for those things. Truth be known, I had the. Only for the dowmpayment on the house and the car.
My Fiance told his Son that he crossed the line and should apologize. I saw an e-mail that I shouldn’t have seen where his son had replied that he didn’t care if I was a woman, a fiancé, or 50. That he felt he needed to put me in my place. Fiance son is the best man which is making me very uncomfortable. I haven’t spoken to him since with the exception of a text message saying he was sorry for saying to much.
fI oldest daughter is. Ot speaking toMls since she called her Father screaming about her part time dunkin donut job being to stressful. SD told MFMIL she was going to her house for dinner and never showed up or called. She is 22 years old and should have enough respect to call someone and I told her that and she didn’t like it. SD is one of my bridesmaids she is. Of responding to anycommunication from me and has. Of spoken to her dad since March 12th. The dresses are in andof paid for. At this point I would rather. It have her in the bridal party but can’t do that’s my Fiance he has tried reaching out to her over and over and just ignores him. Not sure what to do or how to handle it I don.’t put up with this stuff from my kids and. Ot going to put up with it anymore from Fiance kids. He has stuck up for me but I am afraid the cost is going to be high for him. Your thoughts? Sorry so long !