(Closed) Future Brother in Law having a destination wedding- can we have one too??

posted 6 years ago in Destination Weddings
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

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holycrapimgettingmarried:  I think you are fully entitled to have a destination wedding. There are a couple of courtesies that you should extend.

Firstly, talk  to the other couple.

Secondly, consider your date carefully so it’s not a financial burden.

Now here’s the crazy part. Is there any chance the other couple would consider a joint destination wedding?

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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

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julies1949: +1 to your advise about making it a long overlap so its not so financially hard on the FI’s extended family


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holycrapimgettingmarried:  You should have the wedding you want, but to keep the peace I would see if they are ok with you two having a destination wedding ( or atleast be like, hey this is what we are going FYI). I would also aim for at least a year between weddings. If they are thinking Spring 2016, if I were you I would aim for late spring 2015 if you can. Yes you would need to get planning right now but if you get STDs out like within a month or two that should be enough notice. 


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