My sons fiancée didn’t invite me to look at the venue with them
Did your son ask you? Or is it on his fiance
They booked the date without asking me if this was a good date
Assuming its a year or so away surely you can make yourself free for their wedding
She went to a wedding fair and again didn’t invite me
She’s really vague about wedding plans that they have made when I ask her where they’re up to with it all
Maybe they haven’t planned a lot or want you to be surprised!
Every time I suggest something, she just smiles and says good idea
Nice way of saying shut up I don’t like your ideas!
She won’t tell me what her wedding dress looks like, never mind let me see it
I didn’t tell anyone but my mother. This is normal!
I asked her to find me someone who could do my hair for me the morning of the wedding because the venue is 30 minutes away from where I live and I don’t know the area, I asked this hoping she would invite me to get ready with her
And you wonder why she doesn’t tell you things when you are making not so subtle suggestions
She still hasn’t asked me to get ready with her, I’m just as important as her mom and her maid of honour
No your not!! You are his mum not her mum or best friend. She hasn’t chosen you your a package deal with the man she loves.
I don’t want to miss out on all the girly time, I want to feel important too, my child is also getting married!
Then get ready with your child! Talk to your child stop forcing her to do it all. LEt “darling son” take some blame.