(Closed) Future FIL

posted 6 years ago in 40 Something
Post # 3
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14495 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

I wouldn’t confront him, but I would keep him at arms length in the planning process.  Give him no duties or responsibilities.  It sound like your FH is used to this kind of behavior, as he prob has had to deal with this his whole life.  I would just chalk it up to him being “THAT” relative and ignore what you can.  I am sure that most people that have been around him long enough will know exactly how he is.  Killing with kindness almost irritates those types more than getting mad, you know that will turn around on you making you the bad guy, and you don’t want that.

Post # 4
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

I agree with not giving him any responsibilites. If he feels like doing the rehersal entitles him to do whatever he wants them cut him out of that equation and stand your ground! 

Post # 5
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196 posts
Blushing bee

Your fiance needs to stand up to his father and not let him treat you like this.  It’s not a good sign if he won’t.

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