(Closed) Future f.i.l.

posted 11 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
25 posts
  • Wedding: July 2009

I am so sorry that happened to you!  Usually it is Future Mother-In-Law that are the problem!  I think you are wise to ignore and not say anything.  It won’t do any good.  He sounds like a sad, miserable person!

Post # 4
4479 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: March 2010 - Calamigos Ranch

Ugh! I’m so curious what he said… but whatever it was, I’m sure it was totally unnecessary. Why do some people have to make mean jokes at other people’s expense?

Post # 5
6 posts
  • Wedding: September 2008

My Father-In-Law sounds very similar and made constant rude remarks during the wedding planning process, and seemed shocked at how nice the wedding was when it actually happened (no thanks to him or my Mother-In-Law…I almost felt like they were trying to sabotage the wedding!). I’ve come to learn that whatever his problem is, and he most definitley has one, its his own. It has very little to do with me. He seems to think anything other than things he is interested in are “silly” and a “complete waste of time”. I am cordial, but I pretty much ignore his remarks now that used to make me bristle or cry. 

Post # 6
531 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

It’s hard to understand when I don’t know what he said exactly,

Post # 7
202 posts
Helper bee

Hopefully as you grow to understand and love his family he will come around and treat you the way you would like to be treated.  Until then, good luck!

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