(Closed) Future in-laws. VENT

posted 6 years ago in Family
Post # 4
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2651 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2016

I….. am very confused. 

First of all let me say that I am sorry about your SO and i hope he recovers well.

Also, i don’t understand why you are angry in this post.  It’s not like they wished ill on their son… it’s not really their fault.  yes, the way they have treated you and your son have been terrible, and your SO’s reactions would have been a deal breaker for me personally, but  what i dont understand is why you continue to let this bother you.  The olny way someone can make you inferior is if you allow them to.

Now, I don’t understand why  you put yourself though this nonsence.  You KNEW  hat his parents did not like you, so why are you letting it bother you? I have read all of your posts, and will just reeditorate what has been said before, kill them with kindness.

 

Post # 6
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2254 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

@Mrs. Harmony:  I also didn’t realize you were the author of the post mentioned by the other PP. With that being said, you knew Future In-Laws already had issues with their son being with you. Don’t get me wrong, I think their asses especially regarding their stance on your son. I think you have to come to terms that some people (FILs) will never get along with others (you and your son) for apparently no reason. If you opt to stay with your Fiance, maybe you should just ignore them and focus on you, Fiance, and your son.

Post # 8
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3220 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: February 2012

I don’t think you should ever expect any different treatment from them. 

They will not change. They will never respect you. They will never love your son. People like this do not change or grow or learn. 

Post # 10
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1488 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

You either need to accept that this WILL be what your life is, or wash your hands of it. I personally would NOT be able to deal with this awful family despite the love I had for my boyfriend. And to make matters worse, your boyfriend doesn’t even stick up for you OR your autistic son. To not stand up for you and your son is flat out sending the message to his parents that this treatment is okay. And it’s NOT.

Sorry if this comes off as blunt but it is clear from your posts that you are miserable. Why willingly do this to yourself??

Post # 11
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1488 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

Okay I just saw that now your SO is sticking up for you. Good. As long as he keeps this up you should be fine.

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