- 2 years ago
- Wedding: December 1969
greeneyedgal13 : My mother is the same…27 years after my father left her. Still bitter, still obsessed. She was my age, 48, when he left, and she’s not worked, or had another relationship (in her eyes, as a Catholic she is still married to my father) and she still has no hobbies. Except being miserable…
Suggesting any of those things which would improve her life she takes as a personal insult. All she wants is to be the centre of attention and for people to feel sorry for her. I have two brothers – myself and my older brother live on the other side of the world, both by intention. My SIL had the offer of a very good job in the city where my mother lives….my mother was so fucking horrible to her when she was there for the interview that my SIL turned the job down.
Change your locks, change your mobile number and email (don’t give them to her!) and let your Fiance deal with her as much as possible. His mother = his problem.