- 4 years ago
- Wedding: February 2014
My husband works on a military base over 40 hours a week, owns a mechanics garage (so has employees etc), runs a commercial rental property, plays in two diffrent bands, attends church (with me) almost daily, and volunteers at every free moment he can. To say he is busy does not cover it. On top of everything that I do! His mother (who lives with his father in Ohio) has never came down here to see us (though his father has, for weeks at a time at that). We have always assumed it was her being busy, or somthing?
Well, we intended on going home to their home for Christmas in Ohio after picking up his children (he has four). We called her to discuss the plans with her and she went… well insane.
My fiance and his ex have been divorcedd legally for two years, and seperated for over 3. According to both him and his ex wife ( I speak with her often as we being her, me, her new husband and my Fiance are parenting partners) his mother and her never talked. Anyhow, Mom went crazy, and said she could not handle me being there, as she is so heart broken over him and his ex-wife splitting, and how God is so upset with him over it. (MIND YOU, his mom divorced his father, REmarried someone else, left him and REmarried his father) and she can not support our relationship..
Now Im at a crosspoint. What in the world of world am I supposed to do? Im heartbroken, especially since me and his father get along so well. Do we continue to try and talk to her? (Every time I am brought up, she goes into this “God is angry rant” Do we drop it, Do I get over it? I am heartbroken to say the least.