(Closed) Future Mother in Law Drama

posted 7 years ago in Family
Post # 1
Member
54 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

My fiance and I are engaged, and my fiance’s brother is engaged as well. His brother is getting married before we are.

My fiance has an exwife.

The invitation to the brother’s wedding has been sent out. My fiance’s exwife called my fiance’s brother to ask why she wasn’t invited!

When my fiance goes to pick up his son, ex wife tells him that she wishes he would die in the ride there and calls him a “donor”. (sperm donor.) and when she is around me, she refuses to say a word to me, look me in the eye, etc. She has me listed in her phone contacts under the B word even though I have been nothing but polite to her.

Anyway. THAT is why shes not invited lol.

Exwife was so upset about not being invited that she called my fiance’s mom (also his brother’s mom) and complained about not being invited. Now she is threatening not to show up at the wedding unless exwife is invited! What!? crazy! Now I’m worried that she will  not even show up at my wedding, because exwife is CERTAINLY not coming to mine.

 

 

Post # 3
Member
262 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

That’s a rough one. Why would your FI’s mom be more supportive of his ex than her son? I would try to have your Fiance try to talk some sense into his mom. I doubt she actually won’t show up, but if the Future Mother-In-Law doesn’t show up to her own child’s wedding because of something so silly like that, so be it!

Post # 4
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962 posts
Busy bee

I agree with the other poster. Why is she so attached to this girl? If your Fiance (her son) doesn’t want his ex there, then she should respect that. I doubt his mom really won’t come, but if she does decide not to show up to her own son’s wedding, then she has issues and it is her loss

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