(Closed) Future Mother-in-law is a meanie! (long)

posted 8 years ago in Family
Post # 4
2289 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2010

Yep, it should be him. He needs to be the one to tell her to knock it off, otherwise she’s never going to get the hint, or she’s going to find something else about you with which to complain. Perhaps what you could do though is let her know that you are very sorry, it was an overwhelming atmosphere, and you didn’t realize that she was feeling left out.

Post # 6
1455 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 1969

It was not right of your Future Mother-In-Law to go to ur fiance. I feel like that puts him in a bad situation. She should have arranged dinner with you both and talked openly. When she bitches to him privately she is trying to pin him against you or to pick sides. My Future Mother-In-Law is like that, she’ll call us both and tell us different things.

I guess now the best thing to do would be to arrange a dinner or lunch and TOGETHER share the real story of what happened.

My Future Mother-In-Law is a wreck and horrible. You can always PM me if you want to chat… trust me, I’ve been there. 🙁

Post # 7
4480 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: March 2010 - Calamigos Ranch

He shouldn’t be in the middle. He should be firmly on your side.

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