Future Mother in Law Spreading Lies About Me

posted 1 year ago in Engagement
Post # 16
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1148 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2018 - Fremont, CA

I’m pretty sure I’ve read that before…

Post # 17
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813 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2018 - Farm

huck256 :  I’m sorry you are going through this. My question for you is why is your fiance’ sharing this personal information about you with her mother. All of this is none of her mothers business. She has shared this information without knowing how you would feel about it?  What the two of you discuss should go no further than the two of you period. You need to express this to your fiance’. How does your fianc’e expect you to trust her when she has shared really personal information about you. I would be livid and upset with my fiance and address these matters with her. It could solve alot of your troubles since sit sounds like your fiance running her mouth is the problem. Address it with your fiance and once she stops telling  your business hopefully you can resolve things with your future Mother-In-Law.

Post # 18
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: October 2015

Some mother in laws are just mean.. I had a horrbile time with mine. My at the time future mother and law said I was going to be a horrible parent because both my parents left me and my grandparents raised me. I am married now and things have not really changed between us.. she is still quite mean to me.

Post # 19
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Newbee
  • Wedding: August 2015

huck256 :  I’m sorry you are dealing with this. Something that stood out to me was that your fiancé told her mother about you being sexually abused. Is it common for her to tell such personal things about you to someone she knows doesn’t like you?

Also, how does your fiancé react to her mother treating you this way? If she allows it I would seriously considering not getting married. I couldn’t be around all that negativity, much less with a spouse who allowed it. 

Post # 20
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760 posts
Busy bee

 

Professional troll? 

 

Post # 21
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46 posts
Newbee

Oh god, she’s horrible. I’m so sorry. IMO id find It very disrespectful of my mother to say those horrid things towards my soon to be husband. I’d give her an ultimatum. Either she sucks it up and be happy for me like how she’s suppose to be and somewhat try to have a decent relationship with my fiancé, or she’s cut out of my life. – no, you can’t see your grandchildren either. Sorry!

Post # 22
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Busy bee

Based on just this post, as I haven’t read any others. I’d say cut her out of your life. The Future Mother-In-Law. If someone was going around telling people about my past traumas and then saying this makes me likely to be a sex offender, that’s be it. It’s insanely toxic. I really wouldn’t have any interactions with her. And your FS needs to learn to shut her mouth. What does she say about this? 

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