(Closed) Future Mother-In-Law Stress! Need to VENT!!!!

posted 6 years ago in Family
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

I think that aquiring at least one weirdo family member is normal. Mine is my Future Sister-In-Law. People aren’t going to change and the only thing that you can do is to accept her the way she is and just let the things she says roll off of your shoulders. Worrying about what she is doing and saying about you or to you will drive you crazy if you let it. You love you Fiance and your Fiance loves you, but he also loves him mom and she is someone who will be around. Make it easy for yourself and just laugh at her, forget what she says and smile because if you let the things she says and does get to you, you’ll be miserable.

Post # 4
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

Wow, a headlock??? For what??? My Future Mother-In-Law is nuts but she knows better than to put her hands on me.

Post # 5
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749 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

My Mother-In-Law can be nutty, but she has never gone off on my physically. I think you take the cake on that one…I’m sorry you have to deal with this.

Post # 6
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

Okay, I was automatically assuming the head lock was like a weird joke of sorts? or was she like, seriously pissed and put you in a head lock out of anger? If that’s the case….good luck with that one!

Post # 7
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Sugar bee

She does sound a bit off her rocker. But as far as her status goes, I think you should just take it as a compliment. It appears she doesn’t dole out compliments that much, so be grateful when you even get a snippet of one.

Good luck lol! 

Post # 9
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899 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

I assumed it was a joke as well, but, you never know these days. Lol.

Post # 10
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: November 2012

@SweetartMD:  I think we were separated at birth. lol.  My Future Mother-In-Law is insane as well.   My is providing no funds but has a ton of opinions and is treating this as another one of her weddings after 2 failed ones.  I can totally relate.  I think it just comes to the point where you need to stand your ground.  Fiance told her no check = no opinion and she kinda shut up about it since then.  Yes, he was mean about it, but she wasn’t getting it when I was trying to be nice.  I would ignore FB honestly.  I would feel how you feel too.  But to let it get your blood boiling is a waste.  You just have to try to remember what this wedding is all about, and it ain’t her!

Whenever she gets on my nerves I always tell myself “im too young for wrinkles” and the stress starts to go away.

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