- 6 years ago
- Wedding: September 2013
So I am a little upset right now with my future SIL (my fiance’s brother’s fiance… haa).
They VERY recently got engaged and were talking about doing a destination wedding Christmas 2013. She is from British Columbia and he is from Ontario and they currently live in Alberta so they thought a destination wedding would be best.
I asked to see her ring because I had not seen it yet (as they live in AB) and she didn’t post a picture on FB, so I pm’d her and asked to see her ring. This is what she wrote back to me (copied and pasted)
(picture of ring)
Future SIL: “Also, we dont know details about our wedding yet, since our budget can be unlimited now. so it might be close to yours, but dont worry. not in the same month. but you want to hear something exciting? graham and i are most likely taking a private jet to our wedding! i’m so excited. enjoy your day”
Aaaaand my reply back to her. (Believe me… this is not what I WANTED to say)
Me: “That’s great that you have the option of an unlimited budget. Unfortunately, if you have your wedding close to ours, it will be very difficult for us to take time off work and afford the flight. We do not have an unlimited budget, and our paying for the wedding ourselves. Please take that into consideration when planning your day.”
Anyone else think she is being…. uhm… inconsiderate?