(Closed) Future S.I.L. is being a major #$%*!…. Two days ago I talked to her about ..

posted 9 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: January 2012

Take a deep breath!!!

It sounds like she put some effort into finding the right reading for you & her brother! I think she was just upset that she put so much effort into it only to find out you don’t like the reading…

Don’t cuss her out… you can never take words back & this could possibly strain your future relationship! Just let this blow over.  🙂

((hugs))

Post # 5
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Blushing bee

Her email tone was a little sharp, but she did have a valid point. Take a few deep breaths and let it pass. 

Post # 7
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

While she was a little rude.. I have to agree with her. Whether it came to her in two seconds or two months, she still put in effort to help you out with readings. You don’t say how you told her you “didn’t like them,” but it seems to me like you just brushed off the work she put into it.

To be honest, sounds like both of you could use a little calming down.

Post # 8
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: January 2012

Okay.. scratch my comment then. lol I thought she actually took time to find a fitting verse. If I remember from past posts of yours, she’s always been pretty snarky hasn’t she?

I still wouldn’t suggest telling her off though!

Post # 10
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 1969

I’m sorry, guys.   I don’t agree.  Even if she had put in effort, which is appears she has, being that rude is inexcusable.  I know that she certainly wouldn’t want the added stress of someone being so hateful to her either when she gets married or when she was married.  There are PLENTY of ways to have said the same thing without needing to go that route. 

I’m sorry about how she made you feel.  While she was wrong, the absolute best thing you can do is just let this blow over.  Clearly she is not who you thought she was and at some point, this will come back around to her in one way or another.  Just let it go – know that you have the right readings – and enjoy the fact that since you didn’t do the ones she picked, you’re not indebted to someone like that.  Hahahaha.  Hope that helped.

Post # 11
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

Yeah, it was a little “catty” of her to say it in that way.  The thing that you have to constantly remind yourself (trust me, I have to do this too) is that it’s your man’s sister and he loves her and she’s not goin anywhere!  Any tension between you too has to go undetected or your future hubby might lose it!  I’m sure she’s unbearable but don’t let her break you, just continue to vent on here or to people that don’t know her.  You don’t wanna give her more ammo for her arsinal! 

Post # 12
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2009

I have found with my completely insane and off her rocker SIL, that giving her options is better than asking her what she wants.  With shoes, I sent all of my girls 4 options and told them that I would prefer if they went with one of those.  For each of their readings, I gave them 8 options and at least let her chose first so she couldn’t complain that someone else stole the reading she wanted to do.

Sorry she sucks ((HUGS))

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