(Closed) Future SIL Troubles (long story)

posted 7 years ago in Family
Post # 3
3771 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: December 1999

Pick your dates with what works best for you and your fiance. Quit planning around her or including her in those discussions, because she obviously thinks she should have a say in YOUR wedding. Could you have your social earlier in the sumer?

Post # 4
1638 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

@MrandMrsCC:  “So I just said ‘Oh, well, you don’t have to wear pink, guests can wear whatever they want.'”

That was a FANTASTIC repsonse to her. You are standing your ground in a lot of ways!!


You know what plan your wedding in 2012 if you can. Stop planning around her. Choose the date you want to go with it. Your Future Sister-In-Law is jealous and wants to be the center of attention. She doesn’t know people do not care as much about the weddin as the brides does (lesson I learned hehe)

Learn to love her from a distance. She seems the type that will stay this way after chidlren are born.

PS-have you let her Future Mother-In-Law know your Fiance and you have been asking them for their honeymoon plans all along??

Post # 5
2247 posts
Buzzing bee

I am so proud of you!  Seriously!  The comments you have made to your Future Sister-In-Law show that you are not going to stand back and just take it.  The only thing I wish you would have done is scheduled your wedding for 2012, just to piss her off.  But, the brightside is that you have more time to make your day awesome!  Don’t move your social date.  Keep it.  They either come or they won’t.

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