Post # 1
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Wannabee
Now this girl is crazy- for the past two years we have been in a huge fight because I didnt say how beautiful her house was when we visited her and my boyfriends brother-(this started this tear between the four of us ) they live about five hours away from us so we hardly ever really have to see them– but when they do came out here we pretty much have to be around them because all their friends are ours. so at parties she will ignore and not even look at me or my boyfriend-(btw she hates my boyfriend because she asked him to break up with me cause she ddintn like me ) i have tired so hard to reach out to her– writing her letters saying am i sorry but she doesnt care– they ended up getting pregnant and having a baby– this past december my boyfriend and i got engaged and they came down for the holidays–this was the first time i had seen her in six months– she never looked at me or said hi— i ended up again trying to say sorry and she said that she wasnt gonna forgive me but we would move on– I was totally hurt by that — we ended up getting in a huge fight and we havent seen each other since then– so this past year we had set a date for a wedding and we just found out that she is pregnant again and is due a couple days before our wedding and to top it off– they planned it— i just understand their whole way of thinking — and sad for my fiance that his brother whom is his best man may not be there .. can anyone help me understand this better
Post # 3
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Wannabee
You’re younger, probably better looking, probably more educated, much nicer person. And she’s jealous. This is how jealous people behave.
Post # 4
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Sugar bee
I’m confused at how she is your sister in law? If she doesn’t like your boyfriend does that mean she doesn’t like her brother-in-law? I’m way confused on your story.
Also not sure if its jealousy as she seems to have a pretty good life going for her, but maybe she’s just a mean person?
Again, just really confused by your post….
Post # 5
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Bumble bee
I agree jealous people do and say CRAZY things!
I think she is her Future Sister-In-Law from her FI’s brother’s wife??
Post # 6
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Bumble bee
@MrsPinkPeony: I’m pretty sure that this woman is married to her boyfriend’s brother, making her the future sister-in law.
I don’t see jealousy here, I just see meanness. I just see a diva. She wants to be the center of attention, no one else.
Post # 7
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Buzzing bee
I have an evil Future Sister-In-Law and I have tried a million times to say sorry and to try and fix the problem. She also ignores me when I am in a room. I am not sure of the reason why she would do this. (I have reasons for my own situation). All I can say is make it very clear to your FH that you have made a point of trying to fix the problem. Try your best and I know it is really hard but try to be the bigger person and let it slide.
Post # 8
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Bee Keeper
Did it occur to her that her entire family will not be present for the birth because they will be at your wedding? Or that they won’t have the money to buy a ton of super nice things for her second baby because they are buying wedding presents and clothes to wear, etc? This seems like a pretty poor plan if you ask me.
Plus if I were you I would be ECSTATIC that she won’t be at your wedding. Drama Queen. Who needs that bad energy??
PS-I think your Fiance should tell his brother that he should be at the wedding unless she is giving birth THAT DAY. It’ll be nice to take all the photos without her. Hell, I’d put them on my FB wall with a big ol’ happy face. 😀
Post # 9
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Blushing bee
@MightySapphire: TOTALLY. I wish I was blessed with a built in reason that fsil couldn’t be at our wedding or be in any of the pictures. But it’s a little trickier because the Future Sister-In-Law is the blood relative of Fiance and not the married-in-to-the-family spouse. Though she does have a 1 and 4 year old that she will likely insist on bringing to our evening adults only reception at an art gallery, and I’m secretly hoping she throws a fit and boycotts.
Mine is the same degree of rude but I suspect she is too unintelligent to be “evil.”
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