(Closed) future sister in law from hell

posted 8 years ago in Family
Post # 3
3 posts
  • Wedding: July 2010

You’re younger, probably better looking, probably more educated, much nicer person. And she’s jealous.  This is how jealous people behave.

Post # 4
3176 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

I’m confused at how she is your sister in law? If she doesn’t like your boyfriend does that mean she doesn’t like her brother-in-law? I’m way confused on your story.

Also not sure if its jealousy as she seems to have a pretty good life going for her, but maybe she’s just a mean person?

Again, just really confused by your post….

Post # 5
1545 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

I agree jealous people do and say CRAZY things!

I think she is her Future Sister-In-Law from her FI’s brother’s wife??

Post # 6
1667 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

@MrsPinkPeony: I’m pretty sure that this woman is married to her boyfriend’s brother, making her the future sister-in law.

I don’t see jealousy here, I just see meanness. I just see a diva. She wants to be the center of attention, no one else.

Post # 7
1940 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: March 2011

I have an evil Future Sister-In-Law and I have tried a million times to say sorry and to try and fix the problem.  She also ignores me when I am in a room.  I am not sure of the reason why she would do this.  (I have reasons for my own situation).  All I can say is make it very clear to your FH that you have made a point of trying to fix the problem.  Try your best and I know it is really hard but try to be the bigger person and let it slide. 

Post # 8
5822 posts
Bee Keeper

Did it occur to her that her entire family will not be present for the birth because they will be at your wedding?  Or that they won’t have the money to buy a ton of super nice things for her second baby because they are buying wedding presents and clothes to wear, etc?  This seems like a pretty poor plan if you ask me.

Plus if I were you I would be ECSTATIC that she won’t be at your wedding.  Drama Queen.  Who needs that bad energy??

PS-I think your Fiance should tell his brother that he should be at the wedding unless she is giving birth THAT DAY.  It’ll be nice to take all the photos without her.  Hell, I’d put them on my FB wall with a big ol’ happy face.  😀

Post # 9
103 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

@MightySapphire: TOTALLY.  I wish I was blessed with a built in reason that fsil couldn’t be at our wedding or be in any of the pictures.  But it’s a little trickier because the Future Sister-In-Law is the blood relative of Fiance and not the married-in-to-the-family spouse.  Though she does have a 1 and 4 year old that she will likely insist on bringing to our evening adults only reception at an art gallery, and I’m secretly hoping she throws a fit and boycotts. 

Mine is the same degree of rude but I suspect she is too unintelligent to be “evil.” 

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