Post # 16
YES I feel that way. I just want to be totally his in every single solitary way and he be mine. And not because I am “naggy” – I just want to marry the man I love. I’m old (48), divorced, found the right one and I’m so in love I can’t think of anything else.
My plan: keep sending positive vibes into the universe and to him
Mine has started the “lets live together” discussion. I can’t decide on that one…
Post # 17
🙂 It is my dream to be married to my BF but I don’t mind the waiting, I know it’ll happen on its own time and when it does it’ll be amazing. He is the man of my dreams. <3
Post # 18
I can’t wait until we can be together. I so hope that it happens. I would love to have his little Asian babies, but I can’t have children. He knows this and he was ok with it, I get the feeling he might not be though. Whatever happens, I hope his mother doesn’t find out.
Post # 19
I think throughout marriage you will go through cycles of falling deeper in love. I’m sure he feels the same way. I think you should be open and honest with him and tell him why you love him, how happy he makes you, and your desire to be engaged and married by a certain time. But you should also mention that this is not an ultamitum and you won’t bring it up again.
The hard par t is not bringing it up again. But no one said anything about cooking engagement chicken,onion rings, renting the ring, lord of the rings, and leaving pictures of dresses, rings, around his place right? (just kidding, relax and he will do it!)
If he loves you and is understanding, it should work. A friend of mine did this. She was scared to tears about how her SO would react, but he took it well. He agreed and guess what?
He is asking her father for permission to propose this weekend!!!