(Closed) Gah! Perhaps childish…

posted 8 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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3638 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2015

Although I can’t say that I have been in your situation, I completely understand your want to be the one to be engaged first. Hopefully it’s not what you think, or if it is, that he makes her wait longer than you’ll have to. 

Either way, good on you for putting everything behind you for your son. Enjoy your son’s birthday and the cake! 😛

Post # 4
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14494 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

I can completely understand your feelings.  I am really glad that you put your son first and set aside any negativity.  He might just want to talk to you about a college fund or life insurance or something like that.

Post # 5
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858 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

I agree. I’d want to be first too. Even though it was only an ex-boyfriend, I was JUST thinking about how “nanana booboo, I’m more loved than you!” (I’m pretty mature about it too, as you can see! :)) but to be honest, I haven’t even talked to him or seen him for years. My sister has since they both work in healthcare, so I do know that he isn’t to that point yet. Nevertheless, I also agree that its awesome that you can put pettiness aside for your son, and I hope for your own peace of mind that it just happens to be some other obscure thing to do with his girlfriend. 🙂

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