(Closed) "Garden Party Formal"– what does this mean?

posted 6 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
716 posts
Busy bee

your outfit sounds perfect!  dressy casual, sounds like the theme of my friend’s tea party bridal shower.  everyone wore sundresses, wedges, some people wore woven sunhats.

Post # 4
2697 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

Gosh, people sure do want to confuse guest with dress code anymore, huh?

What you are describing sounds great!

Post # 5
951 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

The first thing I think when I hear “garden party formal” is no heels. Heels sink into the ground and make ugly holes in the grass/dirt cakes on your shoes, not to mention it’s downright uncomfortable. Second thing I would think is that your clothes should be outside weather appropriate whereas you might not take the weather into consideration for an indoor wedding. I think that the “formal” implies that she wants you to dress nice with all that in mind.

Post # 6
6256 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: March 2014

Things like this kind of irritate me. “Garden Party Formal” is not a dress code. Even “formal” isn’t actually a dress code: http://www.emilypost.com/everyday-manners/your-personal-image/69-attire-guide-dress-codes

From what I can imagine that this could possibly mean, what you’re wearing sounds acceptable, and really cute. But I’d wear wedges or flats–like a PP said, if the ground is at all moist, your stilettos will sink right in, and that’s a really good way to ruin some shoes 🙁

Post # 7
1243 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2010

Awww…geez.  It’s like people are trying to be confusing!

I think what you’re planning on sounds great.  Honestly, I picture something like what is worn at a garden party at Buckingham palace.  Like this:

Post # 8
569 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

I think it means “look quite smart but bear in mind you’ll be outside so take the weather into account”.

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