(Closed) Is she insane or am I crazy?

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 17
2104 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Distancing yourself is probably for the best. If she demands an opinion, ask her questions instead of giving her answers. For example:

Bride: I’m scared of staining my dress!

Nona: Well, what are you afraid of staining it with?

Bride: What did you do for ______? 

Nona: Well, what are your thoughts on ______?

Talk her into answering her own questions. If she blows up anyway, use a calm voice and say, “I do not like being yelled at. If you don’t want help, don’t ask for my opinion.”


Post # 19
2649 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2016

I think 3 weeks inwhat’s where I hit the ” ohhhhhh fuccccckk, there is sooooooo much too dooooooo! Woooooooe Is meee!!!!! Ahhhh!” portion of the engagement. ( yes, i said woe and drew out my syllabuls) 

Tell her to take a break from planning and do FUN things. She might chill then.

Post # 20
5072 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2012

am I the only one picturing white satin hanging from the antlers?

Post # 22
5072 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2012

@Nona99:  here are some helpful antler ideas

antler cake

antler headdress


you’re welcome! so very welcome!

Post # 24
160 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

OMG Nona… you are hilarious. I am at work. I think people think I’m crazy now. I hope things get better with your sister. She’s being a crazy bridezilla right now. I would recommend distancing yourself. If she isn’t going to take your help kindly, she doesn’t deserve it.

“sitting at a table trying to eat and being distracted by the thought of the wagon wheel/antler chandelier above you falling down and impaling three people and blinding two while simultaneously scarring the children that were too short to be hit for life

I lost it reading that. Horrible picture…hilariously written.

Maybe you could write a novel or a screen play about your sister the bridezilla if things continue this way and make millions.

Post # 26
98 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

Hahaha! Oh my gosh people are looking at me funny at work. I just could not stop laughing at this!

I’m so sorry- I don’t actually have any advice beyond what’s already been said, but I did want to thank you all for a good laugh 🙂

Post # 28
4304 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

I think once the hoopla of being newly engaged wears off, she’ll calm down.  So you’re both alright.  She could be worse.

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