Post # 1
like the Dr shettles method or the +12 or whatever it is? Diet/supplements? Interested to hear any stories!
We are going to ttc in a few months (have a BEAUTIFUL son) and would loveee a daughter. Want to go a natural route in trying – don’t want ivf etc when don’t need to – just thought there might be some fun ways to sway the gender in a direction.
(Obviously I would love another son – any Bub is a total blessing so please don’t make it out like that) 🙏🏻✌🏻
Post # 2
We didn’t want a particular gender (I’m pregnant with my first- a girl)- we just wanted to get pregnant with a healthy baby. However I have heard the girl sperm tend to survive longer, while boy sperm tend to swim faster. Thus if you BD before you ovulate your odds are a bit higher for a girl (the girl sperm are more likely to survive and be stronger once you ovulate), and after you ovulate a bit higher for a boy (the boy sperm are likely to beat the girl sperm to the egg). I was tracking my ovulation, and the month that we happened to get pregnant we only BDed before I ovulated (just due to being too busy after)- and we are having a girl!! Not a fool proof method by any means (or something we were trying for particularly- just worked out that way), and it definitely will make your odds of conceiving lower each month, but it might make you slightly more likely get a particular sex.
Post # 3
I’m in the exact same position! i think it would be fun to try and sway for girl but i would love another boy too! following to see what other say 🙂
Post # 4
I mean, there are only two sexes. So about 50% of people could claim that whatever they did “worked” since they got the sex they wanted. I could say, I wanted a boy so I ate watermelon, danced under the full moon and wore a cowboy hat during sex and I got a boy!
Post # 5
My husband swears we had a girl because we BD a few days before I allegedly ovulated and we only got busy on that day. He wants to try this method for a boy. I’ll humor him but I don’t really believe it – I think you get what you get 😂
Post # 6
Keep in mind I live in Colorado, but it’s commonly known out here (and scientifically proven) that you can have a son if the male partner smokes a lot of pot before trying to conceive….lol. There’s lots of all boy families out here!
Post # 7
Unless you’re going to pay for sperm sorting, there’s no chance to sway towards one gender or the other.
We didn’t do anything, ended up with a girl. Had zero hopes or expectations.
Try ’em if they sound fun, but don’t get your hopes up! Nature doesn’t really care about what we want.
Post # 8
is this a thing? I’ve never heard of it 😂
Post # 9
What? I’ve never heard anyone claim that (or noticed a lot of all boy families in Colorado).
Post # 10
omg this is fascinating. My DH smokes a fair amount and we have a boy. hmmmm
Post # 11
We really wanted a boy first so I bought the book and used it to maximise our chances. Even if a load of crap it doesnt hurt you or the baby. We got our son, due in October. 🙂
Post # 12
that’s funny – I heard guys who smoke pot have daughters. Just googled and girls seems to be the common rumor if daddy tokes, lol!! Funny tho
i have 3 older brothers and my dad never smoked weed (he’s so against it, old school). My brothers def used to smoke and have 5 girls between the 2 of them, lol!
Post # 13
Maybe I need to do more research. But I’m pretty sure there’s studies out there on this!! The reasoning is because male sperm are stronger swimmers, so they will get to the egg first. Apparently the female sperm die off with the pot. I know people that swear by this method! lol
Post # 14
Hmm. I know a lot of all-boy families!! I’m in the Springs.
Post # 15
Didn’t try anything to sway gender, but in The Impatient Woman’s Guide to Getting Pregnant, which I recommend, she says that science does not support the Shettles method and in fact the opposite of what he says seems to be true – sex about 4 to 5 days prior to ovulation swings to a boy and right before ovulation swings to a girl.
My friends really wanted a girl for their second and tried to time things towards that but they ended up with a boy… I think it’s really mostly in nature’s hands!