(Closed) :) General advice needed and up for some lovely chatter anyone?

posted 7 years ago in Waiting
Post # 4
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3295 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

awww it sounds like you guys are on the right track! i would stop worrying so much and just enjoy this time in your life! trust your soon to be fi… im sure if hes telling you he is good financially that he is πŸ™‚ my fi never really teased me with a proposal… he would actually get upset when id ask him because he said i was ruining the surprise lol! in the end he did surprise me though! it all works out!!

Post # 6
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447 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2014 - Ranch

Your situation sounds a lot like mine. Except here, I am the only student. He has a stable job, and all we are waiting for is for me to finish (which better be in the next 9 months or I will shoot myself haha) My bf and I are very open and we are always talking and sometimes bust out with jokes about our wedding and our married life together. He has dropped many hints and has told me what your SO told you a couple times I CAN’T WAIT TO SEE YOUR FACE or YOU ARE GOING TO BE SO SURPRISED.  I was pretty sure it would happen this Christmas ’10, but I think I killed it for myself because I kept killing his plans by guessing when or where he was gonna do it. I couldn’t keep my mouth shut! So I think he moved it to another date because he really wants it to be a surprise since it is VERY hard to do with anything else. This time I am keeping my mouth shut lol On saturday he was watching Say Yes to the Dress with me and he was telling me what he would like and he told me NO LACE! I HATE LACE. YOU CAN WEAR LACE UNDERWEAR, BUT THAT IS IT I thought it was cute that he was comfortable with being involved, but….I LOVE LACE!!!! lol But I love him more!

Oh yesterday I TOTALLY cought him on something! He called and  he said IS IT NORMAL FOR GUYS TO WEAR SOLITAIRE DIAMOND RINGS?? IT WAS AN ENGAGEMENT RING FOR SURE. IT JUST HAD ONE SINGLE DIAMOND, IT WAS LIKE 1.5 CARAT…I was like WAIT…..HOW DO YOU KNOW IT WAS 1.5??? 1.5 IS VERY SPECIFIC…. and he just stayed quiet for a bit and he was like UMM….WELL…IT LOOKED LIKE A 1.5….MAYBE IT WAS 2…BUT ANYWAYS, IT WAS BIG…

Guys don’t just know that kind of stuff, atleast NOT my Boyfriend or Best Friend lol And when we had first started talking about actually getting engaged soon he had told me that he thought a 1.5 ct was the perfect size for me. I think I got something there dont you think?? lol Okay this got very long SORRY!! Its 2:30am here so I had nothing else to do but rant lol

Post # 7
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3303 posts
Sugar bee

I would stop worrying and let him do it however he chooses to. Good luck and I can’t wait to read your proposal story.

Post # 8
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125 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

My fiance spent a year before he proposed saying “I can’t wait to ask you to marry me, I can’t wait to see your face”.  He also spent 3 days before he actually proposed psyching me out and pretending to propose all the time. It was so exciting when he actually did, because I was expecting it a few weeks later. It made it much more surprising.

Post # 9
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1016 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: January 2018

im not waiting anymore, but i just wanted to say that my fiance did the same thing, teased me about it for months, so much so that i was convinced he was going to propose, once he figured this out, he convinced me that he wasnt going to, so i was sad, but knew that i could wait another year or so…a few weeks later i got my proposal :), Hang in there, yours will probably come soon too, sometimes joking is their way of testing out where you stand on things without flat out saying it.

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