Post # 16
I truly appreciate this thread. I have hundreds of family and friends but want a small wedding. The reason I gave was that I’ve had a lot of fatigue and it can be unpredictable. I don’t want a stressful planning to send me back into it. But the other reason? Anxiety. The fewer factors contributing to anxiety, the better. High five to everyone on this thread.
Post # 17
Just came across this as I am up in the middle of the night with a panic attach for the fourth time in two weeks… Wedding is five months away still and it’s getting hard to deny that possibly I might be driving myself a bit too far with planning.
I cried when I found my dress but have basically hated it ever since. We are inviting way more people than I planned. I can’t seem to get everything straight in my head… Plus I can’t decide anything without working out all 100000000 options first.
On top of it my work is really stressful and my fiance has just got a new job so I’m trying to not freak him out in the middle of the night. Any advice on how I can start enjoying this again and not constantly go overboard with planning would be more than welcome!
Post # 18
bumbleboop : GAD is a real thing and I’m sorry you are strugglig. This is a 3 year-old thead and you may be better off starting a new thread so that Bees currently dealing with the same issues may offer support.