(Closed) Genetic Counseling Rage

posted 5 years ago in Pregnancy
Post # 3
10366 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2010

Find a different doctor. If you are willing to pay out of pocket, they shouldn’t care. Do you live in a very conservative area? Doctors where I grew up in the south are much more likely to refuse these tests to women, because they believe it leads to abortions (even though it is none of their business).

Post # 4
9139 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 2013 - St. Augustine Beach, FL

@oldmatron:  If you don’t have risk factors or history, why do you want the extra tests?  As a last resort bring in $1000 cash and flash it at your OB and request that they order the test for you; offer to tip them $100 if they refuse.

Post # 5
1014 posts
Bumble bee

@beachbride1216:  “As a last resort bring in $1000 cash and flash it at your OB and request that they order the test for you; offer to tip them $100 if they refuse.”

And if this changes their mind, then definitely find a new doctor!  Accepting a bribe from a patient would be completely unethical, who knows what else such a doctor is capable of?


Post # 6
3150 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2018

@oldmatron:  just curious as to why you want these tests if you have no risk factors. I would call around to other offices. 

Post # 8
751 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

@oldmatron:  So, you’re trying to find out because you would elect to get an abortion if there were a problem? Is that right?

Post # 9
1492 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: January 2012

@ForeverBlessed:  I really don’t think it’s any of your business to ask this question. It’s the OPs decision and she doesn’t need to explain herself to you, a random Internet stranger. 

@oldmatron:  if they really will not do it I think you can contact labcorp and do the harmony test which is the cheaper equivalent to the maternit21 But tells you the same information. I’d be weary of staying with a doctor that doesn’t repect your request though. 

Post # 12
2465 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

that’s so frustrating! I’m 12.5 weeks along and it’s standard practice for my OB to do/offer a whole slew of genetic screenings (bloodwork at 6 and 16 weeks, NT scan, and any follow ups like CVS and amino), and I’m only 29 and have no family history of anything. although caveat–if this is for the harmony test, in my state they legally can’t run that if you’re under 35, even if you pay out of pocket, since it’s so new.

Post # 13
2949 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2015

@lovemygsp:  Very well said on both points

Post # 14
164 posts
Blushing bee

Why do u need a doctor to order the test? I just went to a private clinic and had the tests done on my own. It was fast and easy. I paid out of pocket (I did the verifi test). I live in Canada By The Way, if it makes a difference. I also felt that if there is a chormosomal abnormality and I can find out for sure with a blood test, and I can afford it, then I want to know. What I do about it is my business. Just like doing the NT ultrasound – which is standard practice in Canada, you do it so you know, what patients do about it once they know is another issue.

Post # 16
2640 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2014 - Italian Villa

@ForeverBlessed:  I’m thinking she would rather prepare herself for any potential difficulties (such as cerebral palsy) beforehand so she can do research and be emotionally ready,  rather than be surprised later.  No need to jump to conclusions. 

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