Get back w/ ex fiance?….

posted 2 months ago in Engagement
Post # 3
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1059 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2018

Keep it closed!

Post # 4
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2314 posts
Buzzing bee

Deadbolt that door shut. Do not waste another minute with this guy.

Post # 5
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779 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2017

Leave that door closed!!!

Post # 6
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651 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2017

Don’t do it! If marriage is your goal, you can meet a great person and get married in less time than trying and probably failing to work out all the kinks in this relationship. 

Post # 7
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1608 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: January 2017

Keep it closed, buy a dead bolt and hammer in 2x4s on that door.

Post # 8
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3017 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2016

Nope. I’d be like “What door?”

Post # 9
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803 posts
Busy bee

Make that door a wall. You deserve better and he’s in your past for a reason! Find someone new without all this history and baggage and go live life!

Post # 10
Member
709 posts
Busy bee

Nothing about your post makes it sound like being in contact with this guy will lead you to happiness. You did the right thing leaving, no need to look back now.

Sidenote: guys really ask for the ring back? Everyone I know who has had a failed engagement (male and female friends) even when the woman offers the guy has declined to take it back. 

Post # 11
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4665 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

Nah 

Post # 12
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6393 posts
Bee Keeper

Sometimes it ain’t over until it’s over but I can’t see any redeeming points here that warrants you putting yourself through the ringer again. 

Sometimes we have to keep making the same mistakes until we learn. Maybe you’ve had enough learning here and you can step away from future hassles. 

He balls up by the sounds of it. Youve moved on and he might be full of regrets but that’s his problem. You can and will do better. 

Im reminded of this fabulous song.  Maybe the lyrics will resonate with you and give you some strength when you doubt yourself  

 

 

Post # 13
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1199 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2016 - Painswick Church and the Falcon Hotel

No way!! You deserve so much more

Post # 14
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2387 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: January 2015

No.

 

Post # 15
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1219 posts
Bumble bee

NO. Keep the door firmly shut and locked. But it might be good to look through the peephole, so you can see the sadness and uncertainty your life would be if you open the door.*

*your view might be obstructed by all of the huge red flags.

 

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