Post # 16
cluisa2109 : keep it closed! I cannot believe that guy is he crazy he’s 38 and going around like that?!!
You are 30! Young and fabulous. Keep the door closed so you can open a new one with a better guy. I did. I ended an engagement with someone who waa a complete Peter Pan. six months later met my FI who’s snoozin next to me right now with my pets. You will find a terrific guy!! Good job on keeping it closed!!
Post # 17
Men CAN change and sometimes do, but if he hasn’t caught the vibe by 38, he would have to be considered a HUGE risk.
He also doesn’t seem by your comments to have done any real, earnest, soul searching work in convincing you OR HIMSELF that he’s made an effort to be worth your trust and/or devotion.
Clear your head of him and circulate. You do indeed deserve better.
Post # 18
Nope. Nail that damn door shut.
He’s an Ex for a reason.
Dont waste another second on him.