(Closed) Get involved or stay out of it?

posted 5 years ago in Bridesmaids
  • poll: Get involved or stay out of it?!
    Get involved. Ask them to email J back nicely : (3 votes)
    17 %
    Give J phone #s they may not check their email : (13 votes)
    72 %
    Stay out of it. J should handle it : (2 votes)
    11 %
    Get involved...I will suggest another choice : (0 votes)
  • Post # 3
    2605 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: September 2014

    Definitely give J their phone numbers and mention to them that J needs to get in contact with each of them.

    Post # 4
    3572 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: September 2011

    No, I would stay out.  On top of that, it’s not J’s place to let you know that your friends aren’t behaving as well as she would like.  One Bridesmaid or Best Man shouldn’t talk sh*t about the others to the bride, EVER

    Post # 5
    9142 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: November 2013 - St. Augustine Beach, FL

    @excitedtobeMRSF:  Give J her phone numbers.  Some people don’t check or ignore emails.  A polite phone call to chat about the party may work out better.  Also, there are so many parties you have to go to for weddings these days that it’s just too much.  Be happy with the few that can make it and don’t stress about the ones that can’t.  Trying to force people to come to an event they don’t want to go to is recipe for disaster.  My BMs ar eonly responsible for attending the wedding itself; anything else they attend is appreciated but I don’t get upset when they can’t go to stuff.  Only one of my BMs was able to attend my shower.

    Post # 6
    1736 posts
    Bumble bee

    I agree with the girls who say to give J their phone numbers. One thing that I did with my bridal party was to send an email out to everyone that included the BM’s names, email addresses, mobile and phone numbers. If you haven’t done that for your bridesmaids…do it now and it will appear like nothing more than a courtesy. No one will think that it had anything to do with J not receiving responses from MIA bridesmaids! 

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