(Closed) Get it together FMIL!

posted 7 years ago in Family
Post # 3
6015 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: March 2012

I know it’s a pain but couldn’t you look the addresses up on Whitepages? but I agree your Future Mother-In-Law needs to get it together!!

Post # 5
1869 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

@medsie35:  My Future Mother-In-Law was the same way.  It took forever to get them.  She finally did though.  I hope your Future Mother-In-Law gets them to you soon.  It’s really annoying.

Post # 6
1763 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

I would definately find them with out her help. I found most of mine on-line or called if I couldn’t find it. It gives you the advantage of being bale to decide who gets one and who doesn’t. Maybe it will down on her list a little:)

Post # 7
217 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Also, maybe the people are on facebook too–then you could message them directly for their addresses?

Post # 8
1489 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

@medsie35: I would snatch her phone book and start making calls.


Post # 12
1199 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

@medsie35: OMG I am about to have the same issue I fear.  Future Mother-In-Law sent me a guest list right after we got engaged and I am OK with it.  She owns a stationary business and therefore has been handling our Save-The-Date Cards.  We are about to send them out and I just got a gut feeling that she could be adding guests to her list and they aren’t paying for the reception.  And I am trying to nicely get all of her guests’ addresses to see if it still matches the original list I have even though she is going to send everything out.  I just feel like because she is handling it all, she is somehow going to expand the list.

I would tell her that you’re sorry but your venue doesn’t have enough room for everyone and it will take you over budget.

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