(Closed) Get married on an ex's birthday, or a Friday/Sunday?

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
  • poll: Ex's birthday or Friday/Sunday?

    Ex's birthday on Saturday

    Friday

    Sunday

  • Post # 16
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: September 2014

    Why do you even know his “not so serious” ex’s birthday?

    Post # 17
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    Busy bee

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    oneanddone:  I would not for the life of me second guess a date because it was an ex’s birthday. It won’t mean that to you any more…that date will now be your anniversary!

    Post # 18
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    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: October 2014

    An ex’s birthday is a whole lot of No1Curr to me. seriously. who cares. Pick the Saturday.

    Post # 19
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    Sugar bee

     

     

    ???? I fail to see the problem here???????

    Post # 20
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    Bumble Beekeeper

    It won’t be his ex’s birthday; it will be your wedding day!

    Post # 21
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    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: September 2013

    I guess I’m lost because I don’t see the issue. I don’t even remember most of my ex’s birthdays.

    Post # 22
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    Helper bee
    • Wedding: October 2015

    Who cares? Keep it on the ex’s bd.

    Post # 23
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: October 2014

    Saturday! Think of it this way: which is more important to you? More people being able to attend (and truly enjoy themselves since many people can’t get to a Friday wedding in time and Sunday people might leave early, not stay, not drink, etc) OR being able to have your anniversary on a calendar date that doesn’t remind you of his ex? I’d choose my own wedding being the best that it can be! Everything else will pale in comparison down the road, after the wedding, guaranteed.

    Post # 25
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: Malibou Lake Mountain Club

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    oneanddone:  an ex is for a reason. this is your special moment; and you will continue to celebrate it so

    Post # 26
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: October 2015

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    oneanddone:  no need to talk to her.  Again, having your wedding on ANYONE’s birthday is a non issue. comgrats on scoring a Saturday at your venue!

    Post # 27
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: May 2015

    I don’t see any reason to speak to her or think about her at all while planning your wedding even if you invite her as a guest she is still just a guest

    Post # 28
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    Sugar bee

    No, I wouldn’t change days. No, I wouldn’t speak to her beforehard (that would be so awkward for all involved). Yes, I would absolutely try to move on from worrying about it. It’s the smallest deal ever!

    Post # 29
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    Blushing bee

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    oneanddone:  It’s very thoughtful of you to consider the ex’s feelings, but really, you don’t need to consult her feelings on this. Even your fiance has forgotten her birthday, and he was the one who dated her! Your obligation does not extend beyond his, which means you should not be wasting any more time/thought on her. You will have so many more things to stress about. She should not be one of them.

    Post # 30
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: February 2015

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    oneanddone:  You’re over analyzing this to an excessive degree and it’s honestly quite silly. Please do yourself a favor and just forget this chick’s birthday. It’s irrelevant to your wedding. 

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