(Closed) Get the MOH something different then the rest of the bridesmaids?

posted 9 years ago in Gifts and Registries
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2009

Hmm, I personally think its ok.

In all honesty my Maid/Matron of Honor has been there for me for pretty much everything, she has been a trooper so I wanted to get her something a little ‘more’

I got my bridesmaids and MOH pearl necklaces and some dangly pearl earings (all the necklaces are the same, but the earrings all all different for each girl)

I wanted to get my Maid/Matron of Honor a little something else. I was unsure what I wanted to get her, but I found this beautiful Tiffanys gem ring (because she likes things like that)

I dont think it should ‘upset’ the other girls

Post # 4
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

I’m getting my Maid/Matron of Honor a bigger, better, nicer gift. I think this is standard.

Post # 6
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

I think a full hour massage is nice and that’s plenty unless you really want to do pearls and you really think she’d appreciate them. But a massage is always so nice =]

Post # 7
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2009

I agree, a nice massage might be nice…however that might be more down the rhelms of having the other girls ‘upset’ I think my girls (or even me for that matter) might be upset if I wasnt included in a massage…

Post # 8
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Sugar bee

I think the other girls will totally understand if you get a different gift for your Maid/Matron of Honor.  I did for my girls and I’ve seen it done before.  I gave my Bridesmaid or Best Man earrings and I splurged and got my sister a cocktail ring that I knew she was going to love.  I spent a lot more on her present, but she’s my only sister, so I knew the other girls would understand.

Post # 9
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: August 2009

I think it’s totally appropriate and if your bridesmaids are upset, they’ve lost perspective. It’s your wedding and they’re there to support you. 

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