MemberIs that ok?
My plan was to get all the girls pearl pendant necklaces except my moh and get her a full strand all to be worn the day of the wedding. Do you think that would upset the other girls? I’d also be getting them all earrings most likely.
MemberHmm, I personally think its ok.
In all honesty my Maid/Matron of Honor has been there for me for pretty much everything, she has been a trooper so I wanted to get her something a little ‘more’
I got my bridesmaids and MOH pearl necklaces and some dangly pearl earings (all the necklaces are the same, but the earrings all all different for each girl)
I wanted to get my Maid/Matron of Honor a little something else. I was unsure what I wanted to get her, but I found this beautiful Tiffanys gem ring (because she likes things like that)
I dont think it should ‘upset’ the other girls
MemberI’m getting my Maid/Matron of Honor a bigger, better, nicer gift. I think this is standard.
MemberI’d like to add that the morning of the wedding I got her my mom and myself all an hour massage. Do you think that’s enough or do the full strand of pearls?
MemberI think a full hour massage is nice and that’s plenty unless you really want to do pearls and you really think she’d appreciate them. But a massage is always so nice =]
MemberI agree, a nice massage might be nice…however that might be more down the rhelms of having the other girls ‘upset’ I think my girls (or even me for that matter) might be upset if I wasnt included in a massage…
MemberI think the other girls will totally understand if you get a different gift for your Maid/Matron of Honor. I did for my girls and I’ve seen it done before. I gave my Bridesmaid or Best Man earrings and I splurged and got my sister a cocktail ring that I knew she was going to love. I spent a lot more on her present, but she’s my only sister, so I knew the other girls would understand.
MemberI think it’s totally appropriate and if your bridesmaids are upset, they’ve lost perspective. It’s your wedding and they’re there to support you.
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