(Closed) Get to know UNDER 21s

posted 11 years ago in 20 Something
Post # 47
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250 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

@dcdt212: I’m grinning at being called adorable! That’s cute! Congrats on your daughter!!! That’s awesome! Oh and Good Luck to your FI!

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@mh.albania: OMG… you mean people have actually SAID that to you?!

Post # 48
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

YAY for an under 21 thread!

I am 17, Fiance is 19 soon to be 20. We have a daughter, she is 2 now. I am a Stay-At-Home Mom and Fiance is currently in boot camp to become a Marine. We met our sophmore year of high school and graduated together. He is my life, I could never love anyone the way I love him. Of course no one is ever perfect but he IS perfect for me. He balances me out perfectly. We have had some really hard times but we have made it through it all and are extremely excited to get married! We are both Christians and we got baptized together ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 49
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727 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

I’m happy to see one of these posts!!

I’m 19, Fiance is 27 and we have been friends for a little less than 3 years, dating for 1.5.  We are getting married in 16 days!! :O

We are both in the health care field and I am going back to school in September.  After that, Fiance will probably be going back to school while I support him!!  

I absolutely love animals, and consider changing my field every once in awhile so I can work with animals instead of people!!  I have a furbaby (Cookie) and a featherbaby (Sandi) and love them to pieces!

Post # 50
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118 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

@mh.albania: The first thing FI’s parents said when we told them “Youre not starting a family are you.”

@truitjen: Wow, I am sorry that happened. Although I hate my periods I am worried sick if I am even a day late (which happens to be today and I havnt gotten it yet). I guess just most of the stories I hear are good ones about going off of BC. I am just on a pill though although I guess I will find out what happens to my body when I stop taking it.

Post # 51
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802 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

@soon2bhis: We have the same age difference ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 52
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70 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

I took the pill before the shot and didnt have any problems. To me, the shot is horrible. I know at least 5 ppl that got pregnant on it and at least 3 whose periods got all messed up like mine after the quit it. But one of my bm’s will start hers the day she is due back for her shot, so idk. But overall, i would never recomend it. I keep wanting to try the pill again.

Post # 53
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250 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

@cyndistar3: Nawwwww  You guys sound adorable!! I say the same thing about my Fiance. He’s far from perfect to everyone but ME.

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@soon2bhis: Congrats on getting married soon!!! You must be totally excited!!

Post # 54
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118 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

See I was thinking about trying the shot but I think you might have changed my mind. Thank you!

Post # 55
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727 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

@Misfit: Thanks!  And relieved!  We were supposed to have a longer engagement but I wanted it shorter…now I wish I had had more time to plan!  LOL

Post # 56
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1182 posts
Bumble bee

@miksje130: Don’t let one person’s bad experience change your mind. I’ve been on it for 3 1/2 years and love it. No bad side effects at all.

 

Post # 57
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250 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

@soon2bhis: Yeah but i bet that if you’d wait you would be saying “I wish it was closer!” haha. I already wish mine was closer!!

Post # 58
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118 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

@Gingersnap: I told my Gyno that I wanted it and she said the shot makes you gain weight. Does this have any truth to it?

Post # 59
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3 posts
Wannabee
  • Wedding: April 2012

My FH and I are both 20. We met and started dating our sophomore year of high school when we were 15 while on a band trip to Disney World. We got engaged last year at Disney when we were 19. We just celebrated our 5 year anniversary of dating last month. I’m graduating college in January and then we’re getting married next April!! We’ll both be 21 and I can’t wait!!!

Post # 60
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70 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

@miksje130 I totally didnt mean to sway you away from it. I just know it can go either way. Some ppl are perfectly fine like Gingersnap and my bm, she loves the shot. But others bodies just react to it differently. I have never known anyone to gain weight on the shot. But you should deff just talk to ur gyno. Maybe she can actually explain what it is that causes the bad reaction. I didnt really get an explanation.

I do know i was scared out of my mind before i got it bc my bm was telling me about how big the needle was, etc. But i think she was just messing with me cuz i didnt feel a thing. lol.

Post # 61
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118 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

๐Ÿ˜€ I go to planned parenthood and the docter there isnt that nice. I was talking to her and all of a sudden she turned around “shot make you fat.” Other than that planned parenthood isnt too bad. Just really crowded ALL the time. I am planning on switching to a normal docter though, this whole thing was just temporary. Personally none of my friends are on the shot now and the one that did have it a while ago had a bad reaction to it. Then again she has a reaction to almost every birth control. Its nice to have other opinions on it from people around my age.

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