(Closed) Getting all worked up over engagement…(again)

posted 8 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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Newbee

aww, I totally understand. I think it’s great that you’re excited and eager (ME TOO!!!). The issue I run into is that I am terrible at hiding disappointment, so if I set my expectations too high and they’re not met, I ruin the day that’s supposed to be special! My goal lately has been to try to focus on how really truly amazing and wonderful whatever we are doing is, rather than try to guess about when he’ll pop the question. You don’t wanna miss out on the fun of your bday because you’re distracted or annoyed that he hasn’t asked. Basically–there’s no way to know whether he’ll do it or not. If you could know, it wouldn’t even be as fun. I hope you can relax and enjoy! I hope, though, that this is your week πŸ™‚ Happy birthday!

Post # 4
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

Just focus on the fun things you are going to do! I mean it sounds pretty freaking amazing! Maybe squeeze in a massage or bump up your work out routine so you can find an anvenue for your energy! Relax! Happy birthday!

Post # 5
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

@DDurango:  I just wanted to send some support…I know it’s natural to get worked up, so I HOPE he pops the question soon!! 

By The Way:  Your wedding date is my brithday 7/14…you said your b-day is this week, when?  Mine is Wednesday!!  Happy early birthday, even if he doesn’t become your Fiance this week, you know you’ll have a lifetime of birthdays to come as HUSBAND and WIFE!!

 

~*smooches and blessings*~

Post # 6
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

I know the feeling… try to focus on the fun time you are going to have with you man and if he pops the question, great, if not… then you still had a fabulous time with your man!

I’ll keep my fingers crossed for you though! Happy Birthday!

Post # 8
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

Oh girl I say go ahead and get excited!!! You know its coming at some point, so if you get your hopes up only to not get your ring this weekend, that’s okay, you’re still gonna get it soon! I DEFINITELY can’t offer you any sort of “reality check” cause those weekend plans suuuure sound proposal-worthy to me!! lol, hoping for the best!!

Post # 10
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2015

OMG!!!! Don’t forget to breathe πŸ™‚

Post # 11
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Bumble bee

BBAAHHHH!! So excited for you!!! I think I would try to keep in the back of my mind that it wouldn’t IT just in case, but girly that sounds pretty darn promising!! YEAY! πŸ˜€

Post # 12
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: January 2012

Sounds tres exciting!

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