(Closed) Getting criticism for G-rated bachlorette party

posted 7 years ago in Parties
Post # 3
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

I think your plan sounds great. I dont really get the whole bach party with strippers, and drink till you an’t see staight thing. I don’t like it and it makes me uncomfortable. I am not a big drinker/ partier. I was just going to do dinner and driks with girl friends, and got quite a few comments about it and how boring it would be. I ended up nixing it all together (not because of the comments) and I have no regrets about it.

Post # 4
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

At worst my “bachlorette” was PG (we watched Dr. Horrible) and while the BMs complained at first they realized it was pretty fun- and we all wanted to go to bed early.

Manicures, cake balls, and movie watching with some of the guys was enough for us. At first they really wanted to go dancing but I didn’t want to so I stuck to my guns and that was enough. (I also don’t drink)

I think apple picking sounds fun!

Post # 5
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2012

honestly, sounds really fun to me.  you might want to jazz it up a bit with a dinner or something afterwards, just so you feel special, but sounds like some good old-fashioned bonding time to me.

Post # 6
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538 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2011 - Franciscan Gardens

I just had my bachelorette this weekend and we actually did something super low key by going to a spa. We lounged in the pool and got massages… they did make me wear a silly tiara with some plastic penises on it- that that was as risque as it got!

Post # 7
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

You are totally right, your bachelorette party should be whatever you want it to be! I think it sounds really fun…I’m kind of jealous 🙂 

I went to a bachelorette for a friend who also doesn’t really drink or party, but her bridesmaids planned the evening and basically forced her to go along with it. At dinner everyone was urging her to drink and taunting her that she had to. I could tell she was getting upset and didn’t know what to do. I pulled her aside and told her I would just tell the waitress to make all her drinks virgins but not let anyone else know. She felt much better, but I know she would’ve had more fun doing something relaxed. 

Post # 8
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2010

im all for going out and having a good time and i dont mind strippers but from what ive seen, some of the male strippers go way overboard – more than the female strippers and really, who wants some strange guys junk rubbed in your face

i like the idea of something different, is there more than the picking? maybe nearby a pie making class or a nice meal afterwards??

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