(Closed) Getting Frustrated….

posted 9 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
1695 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

@ranyamellon:  Good luck to you.  I know waiting can be very hard.  Keep your head up! 

Post # 4
457 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: February 2013

I can’t say that I can relate but my aunt was in a similar situation with her now husband.  They dated for 10 years before he finally asked her.  I remember listening to her vent and get really upset about him not asking.  I remember the whole family thought it was going to happen one Christmas and it didn’t.  She was devastated.  But he asked her a few months later in front of everyone.  They just had their second child last year.  I think that stinks your family doesn’t consider him part of the family after 8+ years.  Not to mention living together for 3+ years.  Have you tried telling your family that it bothers you?  Sometimes guys are sneaky and will try everything and say anything to keep us off their track. I remember my fiance’ buying a new instrument ($3K) and then started talking about buying another.. I thought it just wasn’t going to happen anytime soon.  There was no way he was saving for a ring.  Little did I know the talk about the second instrument was to just throw me off. 

Post # 5
306 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

the economy SUCKS… but I would make sure that I really saw him putting his heart and soul into looking for employment before I really believed he wanted to propose…. just my opinion….

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