(Closed) Getting Insecure

posted 8 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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Sugar bee

oh honey- you will be alright! *hugs*

Post # 4
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

Aw I am the worst cook ever and Fiance doesnt care! He does all the cooking. While I was waiting I had my period of laying the pressure on but eventually I just stopped and quietly waited for it to happen and it did eventually not as quickly as I had wanted but I now have everything I wanted…. Be patient and if it is meant to happen it will!

Post # 5
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

Haha, don’t do ittt!!!  I did that (not for engagement purposes, but because I LOVE eating food and I like it more than the gym) and needless to say I got really fat.

Funny Story:SO always insisted that he didn’t like Beef stroganoff, but I like it and insisted he would like it if he tried it, since he hadn’t had it in so long.  Well I made it and I thought it was lovely, but he didn’t like it.  😛  He ate like…half a plate and said it was good and then I had to make him mac n cheese 2 hours later. 

<edit> moral of the story: we’re still dating, even though I MADE him eat something I KNEW he probably wouldn’t like.  So dont’ worry about it!  </edit> 

But in case you still want to cook (because i LOVE cooking…) try foodgawker.com!  You can find a recipe for like…anything on there.  AND there’s pictures.  <3 pictures of food. 

Post # 7
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

My ex Mother-In-Law was a stay at home mom/wife who liked to try various recipes- from Good Housekeeping/Redbook/Readers Digest etc.  She would try them and my Father-In-Law would say” We should keep that” or “dont believe we need to keep that recipe”

He ws aware of her feelings, appreciated her efforts to be creative and they were married almost 60 years before he pased away.

Its all about trying, being appreciated, and being polite.- imo

Post # 8
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

You say you agreed to get married in Summer 2012, but did you talk about when you want to get engaged?

Post # 9
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

@pisces36:I just feel like if he really wanted it, and he was really sure, he’d do anything to make it happen.

I have had that EXACT thought: when you want something you make it happen, why won’t you make proposing happen? I wish I could give you some brilliant advice that would respond to that, but I haven’t figured it out myself yet 😛

All I can say is that no one (unless they are a horrible and manipulative person) says you’re they’re soulmate, etc etc unless it’s true, and I’m sure your SO isn’t a horrible person, so I think you should take that at face value. To me if he’s saying those things it shows that he is at the very least aware that the two of you will be together for the long haul, and it may just be more an issue of nailing down specifics…

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